@the-pickled-walrus saidProbably a good reason for you to get drunk eh? 😉
You are right that everyone lies but in a relationship?
I can't handle that.
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@lemondrop removed their quoted postNever married.
God no....never.
No kids either.
We decided to move on ...just remain friends.
@the-pickled-walrus saidIf I lose a game of chess (it does happen) then I dissect the game afterward to see what I could have done better.
I did.
Time to move on. 😉
My (unsolicited) advice sir is do likewise with your recent breakup. Absolutely it is not cool for a partner to lie, but perhaps also ask the question of yourself "Why did she feel the need to do so?" Do you perhaps have a temper she was trying to avoid, do you have trust issues? Are you an unforgiving person? - Use this as an opportunity to become a better man and have better relationships in the future.
Agony Ghost.
@ghost-of-a-duke said"Marriage can only be built on mutual trust."
If I lose a game of chess (it does happen) then I dissect the game afterward to see what I could have done better.
My (unsolicited) advice sir is do likewise with your recent breakup. Absolutely it is not cool for a partner to lie, but perhaps also ask the question of yourself "Why did she feel the need to do so?" Do you perhaps have a temper she was trying to avoi ...[text shortened]... s an opportunity to become a better man and have better relationships in the future.
Agony Ghost.
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@ghost-of-a-duke saidInteresting 🤔
If I lose a game of chess (it does happen) then I dissect the game afterward to see what I could have done better.
My (unsolicited) advice sir is do likewise with your recent breakup. Absolutely it is not cool for a partner to lie, but perhaps also ask the question of yourself "Why did she feel the need to do so?" Do you perhaps have a temper she was trying to avoi ...[text shortened]... s an opportunity to become a better man and have better relationships in the future.
Agony Ghost.
You're right.
Life it self is a learning experience. I don't know if two people were made to be together for life. I know many who have and appear happy in public. I don't see what they are like at home though. I've seen people who I thought were quite happy break up which come as a shock at first, now it is just another long term couple breaking up. The average marriage in Hollywood lasts 5 years according to a survey I looked at not that long ago.
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