maybeONEday & shavixmir
I have thought about it for long. I have , and I am really not joking, talked to her more than 15 times. I have told her that we should start doing the same things together. I have to do everything she does, and she doesnt want to do what i love doing.
We were married for three months when she already had an affair with one of my clients.
This was hard, it was so hard but i couldnt leave her, cause then she was so good, fun, THE PERFECT WIFE and i thought, lets give it another try. Since then, everything went downhill.
Now, that love is not there anymore. Its empty. I feel ashame to let everyone here read it, but its gotten to a point where i had to just talk about it.
The one thing a really am doing is thinking b4 i say anything. Its getting harder each time i even try.
And yes, by all hopes, i want to safe the marraige, that is what God wants us to do is to be strong, but i dont feel like i have more power left. Is it too late? I dont know. Will there ever be THAT love, i dont know.
Originally posted by NicolaasFrom now on, I'm just going to continue this conversation through the messaging system.
maybeONEday & shavixmir
I have thought about it for long. I have , and I am really not joking, talked to her more than 15 times. I have told her that we should start doing the same things together. I have to do everything she does, and she doesnt want to do what i love doing.
We were married for three months when she already had an affair with one of ...[text shortened]... have more power left. Is it too late? I dont know. Will there ever be THAT love, i dont know.
Originally posted by NicolaasThis alone should make the whole ordeal very easy.
We were married for three months when she already had an affair with one of my clients.
Tell the slag to hit the bricks and don't even tell her why. Any woman that cheats on you should not be given the courtesy of a reason, that's just insulting to both of you. If she's done it once already, what's to say she won't do it again.
Leave her... now. My humble opinion.
Originally posted by darvlaygonna talk to her this weekend, i will come back and tell what happend ok.......
This alone should make the whole ordeal very easy.
Tell the slag to hit the bricks and don't even tell her why. Any woman that cheats on you should not be given the courtesy of a reason, that's just insulting to both of you. If she ...[text shortened]... y she won't do it again.
Leave her... now. My humble opinion.
....and if there aint any message on monday - she killed me 🙂
Originally posted by darvlayBy why did she cheat? Obviously this guy is no good in the sack.
This alone should make the whole ordeal very easy.
Tell the slag to hit the bricks and don't even tell her why. Any woman that cheats on you should not be given the courtesy of a reason, that's just insulting to both of you. If she's done it once already, what's to say she won't do it again.
Leave her... now. My humble opinion.
Originally posted by NicolaasWell, you have a stressful job. So you expect when you get home to have a stress free environment, right? But maybe your wife is also under a stressful environment(?) Maybe, just maybe she loves you more than anything in the world but is worried about your relationship?
no wonder my rating is dropping, i just cant handle the stress anymore
I don't know what's going on at home, my friend, but you and I have already agreed that YOU are working in a very stressful job. Ya-know, I gotta tell you this, stress can really mess up a person's thinking. I'm a living example. I worked as a top maintenance supervisor for GM years ago. At the time I thought I was handling the stress pretty good, but in reality it was working on my mind... It wasn't till years after my life was ruined that I could go back and figure out what the hell happened!?
Not trying to lecture you or anything, just trying to share some knowledge. When people are under stress they often have thoughts of relieving the stress. They think (and this is rational) "I can't quit my job, so I must do..." So they try to relieve the stress at home. Nobody but yourself can make the decision if you should stay married or not... but I sense that your thinking is clouded by the attraction of another female. A person you work with.
Okay, I know I'm going to take a lot of flak from the regular members here, but I'm willing to pay the price to get the message across to you. The female you are attracted to at work will not make you happy.
