25 Oct '15 10:16>1 edit
One useful thing to know is that different discussion groups can have different standards of netiquette, yet still work well for their members. Some can be very permisive — almost anything goes, while others are heavily moderated, potentially to the point of being too politically correct and stifling honesty and frankness.
I would advise those people who see themselves as some kind of 'forum police' (without actually being moderators) or as 'crusading for common decency' in more permissive forums that the really smart course of action is simply to leave the forum for an extended period or permanently. This is also commensurate with good netiquette. Respect the choices of those people who use those forums: they probably have good, valid reasons for preferring that sort of environment.
There will be somewhere online, probably even hundreds of websites, where you will be accepted and can thrive among like-minded people.
I would advise those people who see themselves as some kind of 'forum police' (without actually being moderators) or as 'crusading for common decency' in more permissive forums that the really smart course of action is simply to leave the forum for an extended period or permanently. This is also commensurate with good netiquette. Respect the choices of those people who use those forums: they probably have good, valid reasons for preferring that sort of environment.
There will be somewhere online, probably even hundreds of websites, where you will be accepted and can thrive among like-minded people.