You know Sasquatch, my initial impression of you was that you were a man's man - ya' know, tough, independent, head firmly centered on you shoulders.
What with your posts about woman troubles, bar troubles, twin tower wacko stories, and now this, I'm beginning to wonder if you and Shav aren't the same person....
Originally posted by sasquatch672If you decided to board someone else, it would be no one's fault but her own for having such horrible communication skills and, frankly, a lack of proper courtesy. Do you know her personally? Would you be losing a dear friend over this?
What's everybody's opinion? Can I ditch them? I realize that would be a right proper screwing. I'm also feeling like I'm having things sprung on me - like the car, not calling for five days, making me think you're not coming, then when you say you're coming, you don't show. And if them getting here was this rough, well...
Originally posted by The PlumberYeah, next thing you know he'll be complaining that he doesn't have shoes to go with his outfit 😛
You know Sasquatch, my initial impression of you was that you were a man's man - ya' know, tough, independent, head firmly centered on you shoulders.
What with your posts about woman troubles, bar troubles, twin tower wacko stories, and now this, I'm beginning to wonder if you and Shav aren't the same person....
if she wasn't up front with you originally, then i don't see a problem in deciding against her moving in. Just say, "in light of recent events, I think you would be more comfortable somewhere else." she sounds like a mess, and if she's a mess now, it probably won't get better, more things will change, rent will be late, there will be excuses, "reasons", strifes, problems, conundrums, dilemas, debaucles and a veritable sh1t storm of crap you don't want to deal with. i'd say cut it off before she moves in-- because evicting a tenant is a REAL pain in the butt.
Originally posted by Darth SpongeWord.
if she wasn't up front with you originally, then i don't see a problem in deciding against her moving in. Just say, "in light of recent events, I think you would be more comfortable somewhere else." she sounds like a mess, and if she's a mess now, it probably won't get better, more things will change, rent will be late, there will be excuses, "reasons ...[text shortened]... cut it off before she moves in-- because evicting a tenant is a REAL pain in the butt.
Listen to the man, SackSquash
I think you should put your foot down mate, explain to her that you have been nothing but forthcoming on your behalf and all she has done is move the goalposts contantly. Dont forget its your house so if you are not happy you are well within your rights to refuse her lodging (unles you have any kind of contract between you.) Talking of contracts are you going to get on inplace? There has been many occasions I have heard that a lodger has been taken on, the owner goes to work then the house is stripped. (only pointing this out as you said you havent seen her before so can you trust her + kids) I would also ask for 2 independant references from places of work etc stating she is who she is.
I hope I dont sound too harsh but im sure you have worked hard to get your house so dont be knieve to have it taken away from you.
I have read your post twice.
I get the picture completely.
And it is a very difficult situation.
I see your problem as being this.
If you let her in , she has set a precedence. That is, she can mess you about any time she feels like it.
If you dont let her in.You are a bad person. Cos she is in need and messed up a little.And will be attracting very bad Karma.
ITs a tough call.
