Put an RHP member in a nursery rhyme

@Ghost-of-a-Duke said

Good to hear though that you consider Kevin a troll and do not support making disturbed posts about suicide.

@Very-Rusty said
@Ghost,
Here an idea if you don't want Kevin responding to your threads, then don't respond to his!! Simple right?

You just end up winding him up and making things worst not better!!

-VR

@Ghost-of-a-Duke said
She didn't ignore it. She responded in the thread concerned and shared my disgust. (The post received multiple alerts, including from myself).

@Ghost-of-a-Duke said
You speak of kindness while yourself making disgusting posts about suicide.

What's wrong with you?

Frère Rusty
Frère Rusty
Dormez-vous?
Dormez-vous?
Sonnez les matines!
Sonnez les matines!
Din, din, don.
Tabarnak de dindons!

😉

@Arkturos said
Why are you still playing at Man-Matron-Paladin in defense of Suzi, if she is fully capable of defending herself?

And the post that I have deleted myself essentially asked: If that had occurred, then why behave so subsequently. Do you see?

For Suzi's sake, I will say this: I can understand the attraction to beautiful sad people and the wish to help them be less sad, bu ...[text shortened]... nder in the way you present yourself on this forum, instead of resorting to stale sitcom quippiness?

@Suzianne said
It was an episode from my life that you shouldn't have attempted to sully with your cheap shots.

Stay out of my face.

@Arkturos said
A mature, variant reply could have been:

1) "No -- in retrospect something like that was probably going to happen anyway, and my involvement had nothing (or at least very little) to do with it."

2) "No! Of course not! Sorry if I came across that way."

And I'll add that from my side it doesn't seem that at any point you or Ghost were sincerely interested to learn wha ...[text shortened]... de might have been involved in my posting those two questions (deleted the next morning, of course).

@Suzianne said
I don't give a damn.

I just want you to stop the harassment.

@Arkturos said
Says the man who once started a club here primarily to exclude Rusty.

And notice how he says "people" to vaguely drag in putative others, the same way he seems to imply he is some kind of moderator here, not to mention another role which I will mention below.

But maybe we should cut him a slight amount of slack for this reason: I gather he is a Londoner, and without ha ...[text shortened]... and that might be a significant factor in how he expresses himself and how he behaves toward others.

@Arkturos said
Rusty, I hope you might have noticed I'm not so easily wound-up these days.

Although I don't consider Ghost to be a gaslighter per se, he does seem to display some similarly manipulative tactics (wittingly or not), therefore I'm generally attempting to use the same mindset and approaches that some advise for those dealing with a gaslighter when it comes to engagement or disengagement with him.

The way I see it it takes two people to make a confrontation, one person can NOT do it alone. If you can't get along don't bother with the other person, we all know what I am talking about. Everyone is here for a reason to socialize or play chess or a little of both. All an argument does is go on for ever and ever. Diver and myself know all about that!!!

-VR

@Very-Rusty said
@Kevin,

Yes, I have noticed you are not as easily wound up as you once were my friend. @Ghost must believe he has special privilege's for reasons only he would know. 😉

You have been holding your own against him a few thumbs down from his minions don't mean anything. People are starting to see him as a bully. I have known that for a long time now. 😉

-VR

@Very-Rusty said
The way I see it it takes two people to make a confrontation, one person can NOT do it alone. If you can't get along don't bother with the other person, we all know what I am talking about. Everyone is here for a reason to socialize or play chess or a little of both. All an argument does is go on for ever and ever. Diver and myself know all about that!!!

-VR

@Suzianne said
It was an episode from my life that you shouldn't have attempted to sully with your cheap shots.

Stay out of my face.