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Reading People #101

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Originally posted by Hand of Hecate
1. I love my daughter and would kill everyone else to protect her. My dog is a great companion, but, if I was really hungry I'd eat him.

2. I love my parents, but, I am distant from them. I no longer seek their approval. If I was really hungry I'd probably eat them too.

3. I have an easy rapport with most people, but, I am subtle, cunning and ...[text shortened]... ssociate with. One must be able to walk with kings and low men.


How do you read that GB?
Reads well, Hand. Especially liked the way you finished it off with a little coarse sandpaper. With respect to #3, now and then relaxed vulnerable

is also okay and natural, even appropriate if not outright desirable. A useful perspective might be to consider it as spotting a center pawn or two.

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Originally posted by Grampy Bobby

#5. In romance go to school on his or her table manners and eating style. On picnics or in restaurants, it's a sneak preview of behavior in bed.




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Is this a tip for the ladies GB?

"Hmm, he tosses that salad very slow and softly...just the way i like it!"

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Originally posted by uzless
Is this a tip for the ladies GB?

"Hmm, he tosses that salad very slow and softly...just the way i like it!"
Both. No gender distinction. And it's not so much a 'tip' as a principle.

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Originally posted by Grampy Bobby
#2. What level of respect and rapport does the person have with his or her parents?
And what do you think that tells you?

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Originally posted by Grampy Bobby
Rec'd (and, Seitse, tell us more).






~~~ GB 😀 SOA ~~~
Well, would you date someone who orders caesar salad and water at a steak restaurant?

I'm a meat man.

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Originally posted by Raven69
And what do you think that tells you?
Character, integrity and capacity for honor within an intimate long term relationship... especially if there have been ups and downs along the way.

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Originally posted by Grampy Bobby
Character, integrity and capacity for honor within an intimate long term relationship... especially if there have been ups and downs along the way.
Sometimes respect or lack thereof is more of a reflection on the parents than the individual.

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Originally posted by Grampy Bobby
Reading People #101






#5. In romance go to school on his or her table manners and eating style. On picnics or in restaurants, it's a sneak preview of behavior in bed.




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I have an insatiable apetite😉

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Originally posted by Raven69
Sometimes respect or lack thereof is more of a reflection on the parents than the individual.
Nobody ever reaches full stature of maturity without first coming to the realization that 'You can't change other people and that you can only

change yourself'. Parents mess up? So what. Forgive them. Forget the injustices. Let go of the trauma. Treat them better than they deserve.

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Originally posted by duecer
I have an insatiable apetite😉
That kinky factoid we all already knew. What we need to know is whether or not you share your toys and play nice with the other children.




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Originally posted by Grampy Bobby
Reading People #101




Recently make some new friends? Things getting hot and heavy with a boyfriend or girlfriend? Interested in learning what they're really made

of and what makes them tick? Read between the lines. Pay attention to little things. Key on instinctive behavior during unguarded moments:

#1. Notice the individual's attitude t ...[text shortened]... ing style. On picnics or in restaurants, it's a sneak preview of behavior in bed.




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#6. Realize that anyone who behaves irrationally with windfall prosperity will also fall apart in the face of the crises and clinches of adversity.

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#7. Indiscriminate niceness is terribly overrated. Take note of fawning behavior, mechanical flatteries, abject groveling and excessive gifts.

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~~~ Class Adjourned ~~~