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Any tips on how to find out if a really friendly guy just likes you as a friend or as something more. A tip on how to sort of find this out secretly, so you dont have to come down one way or another if you don't feel ready...

BY THE WAY I know this post is gonna get in all sorts of directions but if you have serious advice, maybe message me even. I'd sure appreciate it.

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Originally posted by Kaleigh
Any tips on how to find out if a really friendly guy just likes you as a friend or as something more. A tip on how to sort of find this out secretly, so you dont have to come down one way or another if you don't feel ready...

BY THE WAY I know this post is gonna get in all sorts of directions but if you have serious advice, maybe message me even. I'd sure appreciate it.
Considering you say you're 15, I'll keep this clean. Any guy paying attention to you likes you. That's it. If you don't like him, tell him about a secret out-of-town boyfriend you're really into. If you do like him, pay attention back. Eventually, he'll get up the courage to ask you out.

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I thought of trying that secret boyfriend thing and seeing his reaction, but he knows that I'm not allowed to date till 17...

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Originally posted by Kaleigh
Any tips on how to find out if a really friendly guy just likes you as a friend or as something more. A tip on how to sort of find this out secretly, so you dont have to come down one way or another if you don't feel ready...

BY THE WAY I know this post is gonna get in all sorts of directions but if you have serious advice, maybe message me even. I'd sure appreciate it.
Just to be clear, having looked at your profile: is this really friendly guy named Jesus?

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lol no!
that Jesus in my profile is THE Jesus
you know, the Savior

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Originally posted by Kaleigh
I'm not allowed to date till 17...
This guy is TRULY HONOURABLE.

He's a saint if he's gonna wait that long! Snap him up young miss! 😉

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lol none of u are really helping me except for the first person...
the guyt is a friend of mine...how can i know if he wants to be more???
without being obviousl about it!

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Originally posted by Kaleigh
lol none of u are really helping me except for the first person...
the guyt is a friend of mine...how can i know if he wants to be more???
without being obviousl about it!
At the age of only 15, friendship is the safest thing, my dear. What more could there be?

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Originally posted by Kaleigh
lol none of u are really helping me except for the first person...
the guyt is a friend of mine...how can i know if he wants to be more???
without being obviousl about it!
Having been a 15-year-old guy not too terribly long ago, I think that for his sake you should take the high road, treat any potential awkwardness as but the hissing of snakes and the barking of dogs, and be obvious about it 😏.

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just friendship is all i want
but its awkward sometime when were hanging out cuz i dont know how he sees me
not sure if this makes any sense lol

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Originally posted by Kaleigh
lol none of u are really helping me except for the first person...
the guyt is a friend of mine...how can i know if he wants to be more???
without being obviousl about it!
Ask him! Most young guys would accept your wanting to know.
Tell him you can't date until you're older, and you hope he doesn't mind.
If he genuinely likes you very much he will accept it maturely, and tell you he is prepared to wait, if he does indeed want to be more. Just ask him if he wants it to be more that he can accept this. If he says yes, then you have your answer. If he doesn't want to be more, then you also will get your answer.

OMG - Mikelom answering seriously! 😲

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Thanks. I know that's probably the best thing to do, but I'm too much of a wuss!

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Originally posted by Kaleigh
lol none of u are really helping me except for the first person...
the guyt is a friend of mine...how can i know if he wants to be more???
without being obviousl about it!
dear kaleigh,

"without being obvious" iz tha first thingy i would discard...
az already pointed out to you, this man iz honorable, and part of honor iz courage...

ask him...

directly...

fear iz tha mind killer...
bust fear's chops and you win...


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