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Originally posted by Phlabibitok... i'll try to explain... the daughter of the person who died called. she wasn't really friends with anyone involved but the person i had to pass on the message to was the friend of the died guy but more so his wife.
She said daddy?
I'm very confused and off for the evening.
I'm sticking with "tell her yourself".
You can't call to tell someone twice if they didn't get the message the first time.
P-
and yes she said daddy.
Originally posted by trev33Why were you in someone elses house when they were out, answering their telephone?
so the other day i'm in someones house and the phone rings.. i reluctantly answer.
other person: hello is * there?
me: no she's out... she'll be back in about an hour if you want to call back.
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Originally posted by adramforallbecause i'm the gay lover of the womans husband... he was in the shower after fun times while the phone was ringing and ask me to get it.
Why were you in someone elses house when they were out, answering their telephone?
duh... why else would i be in there?
Originally posted by trev33How can anyone know how to act in abstract times? -So you did fine.
so the other day i'm in someones house and the phone rings.. i reluctantly answer.
other person: hello is * there?
me: no she's out... she'll be back in about an hour if you want to call back.
other person: can you pass on a message for her?
me: sure
other person: this is (someone) can you tell her that daddy died?
me: who was that again?
...[text shortened]... one of these little things that 'you're supposed to do' that i don't get again?
I suspect she had a few people to ring and was postponing her greif till she'd done her calls. Would have been easier for her to write to your friend. Or maybe your friend was waiting on news, but then she'd have said to you that there might be a phone call.
No matter how prepared one is about their parents death it's still a shock of sorts when they die, so it's possiable she was in shock still too.
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Originally posted by yo its melater found out the dude had cancer and it wasn't unexpected.
How can anyone know how to act in abstract times? -So you did fine.
I suspect she had a few people to ring and was postponing her greif till she'd done her calls. Would have been easier for her to write to your friend. Or maybe your friend was waiting on news, but then she'd have said to you that there might be a phone call.
No matter how prepared one i ...[text shortened]... ath it's still a shock of sorts when they die, so it's possiable she was in shock still too.
still find it a strange phone call.
