Originally posted by mlpriorOr you could try letting them stay up an extra hour on saturday night. . .that'd be pretty cool 😀
Don't worry Mokko, being cool is so overrated!
You are cool to your own peers, that is what really matters.
Just be a mom to the kids, that's all you can do. You will never be cool in their eyes, no sense beating yourself up over it.
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Originally posted by mlpriorWell to put it in perpective they said that nobody thinks I'm cool :'(
Don't worry Mokko, being cool is so overrated!
You are cool to your own peers, that is what really matters.
Just be a mom to the kids, that's all you can do. You will never be cool in their eyes, no sense beating yourself up over it.
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They have to think I'm cool. Or at least tell me they do. I control the food rations 😏
Originally posted by arrakisnah....it's not like that at all hun. It's more like I tell then their boyfriend is on the phone and they yell they don't have a boyfriend and I say that's not what I hear and they say ya right! and I say then who was that you were kissing in the schoolyard and they say MOM GROSS! you're soooooo not cool. and I say I wasn't the one kissing boys at school and then they drop the bomb and say they're going to tell everyone how old I REALLY am and then I have to lock them backup in the cellar.😏
They are trying to manipulate you. Kids are smart. They probably saw how your ex manipulated you and so are trying to do the same thing. 😲
But once you are on to them you can resist.
Am I cool yet?