Originally posted by SunburntThat's not what I meant. I mean that if you aren't prepared to marry someone (or if they're not prepared to marry you) then you shouldn't be prepared to have sex with them. As to ACTUALLY being married... I suppose there's leeway in that respect.
Are you saying that two people can't have sex outside of marriage AND choose to love and care for eachother? I don't believe that at all.
Originally posted by Red NightThat's one thing.
Things to put on your resume:
Gave sex advice to 17 year olds on the internet.
And
Things to put on your resume, Red Night:
Judgmental, superficial, arrogant, absurd, soulless.
You are one of those posters that I will ignore from now on. You are not worth my attention.
Originally posted by mrjonesvich321It seems the same to me, but I understand your point.
That's not what I meant. I mean that if you aren't prepared to marry someone (or if they're not prepared to marry you) then you shouldn't be prepared to have sex with them. As to ACTUALLY being married... I suppose there's leeway in that respect.
Originally posted by mrjonesvich321Then educate yourself. No doubt the girl is already educated about it, but sad to say, some aren't, mostly due to parents who think that by not educating their kids they think the kids won't be doing it. Nooooo, the truth is that the kids won't have enough info to be doing it *safely*.
Fine then.
For myself, I would never ask or want for my girlfriend to put herself at risk for the sake of my enjoyment. If you know of someone that can take it without risk, then fine, but I still disagree with the priciple behind the idea in general.
There are myriad methods of birth control that are not in pill form.
Originally posted by SuziannePull out, damnit!!
Then educate yourself. No doubt the girl is already educated about it, but sad to say, some aren't, mostly due to parents who think that by not educating their kids they think the kids won't be doing it. Nooooo, the truth is that the kids won't have enough info to be doing it *safely*.
There are myriad methods of birth control that are not in pill form.
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Originally posted by rubberjaw30I think what he's saying (and I agree).... it's silly NOT to have premarital sex. I can't imagine __MARRYING__ someone without even knowing if the sex life is remotely compatible. That's just stupid.
you'd throw away the rest of your life for that ten minutes?
And given how most of America does engage in premarital sex, it seems they would agree.
