Originally posted by tomtom232did you ever stop to think that some guys actually have personalities??? this guy isn't like that... he doesn't only date 'cute' girls. besides which, isn't 'cute' all a matter of opinion? i don't think that i'm cute, but some of my friends have told me i am. if what you mean by 'cute' is physically developed, then yes, i am VERY attractive that way. sorry to say so and no i am not bragging. but even my straight friends that are girls have pointed it out multiple times.
If you aren't cute then forget it...I am sorry but thats just how guys his age are...like I said...wait a few years maybe you will grow to look better and he will probably not care AS MUCH about looks...it will still be important though.
Originally posted by domino971why all the beating around the bush? trying to avoid sounding modest? Dont' want to be labelled? Just post your pic on the RHP pic site and we'll all judge you. Or do you not like the word "judge"? Ok we'll give you our opinions that are based on a judgement about whether you are cute or not.
did you ever stop to think that some guys actually have personalities??? this guy isn't like that... he doesn't only date 'cute' girls. besides which, isn't 'cute' all a matter of opinion? i don't think that i'm cute, but some of my friends have told me i am. if what you mean by 'cute' is physically developed, then yes, i am VERY attractive that way. sorry ...[text shortened]... ging. but even my straight friends that are girls have pointed it out multiple times.
Edit: Uh, if you're a guy then scratch the above.
Originally posted by uzlessI would recommend against giving out any pictures to anyone on this site personally, sure, if you send one to rhp faces, lots of people have, but that'll take a while to get put up anyway. And purely because of age reasons, she being 14, sending in a picture is not the brightest of ideas.
why all the beating around the bush? trying to avoid sounding modest? Dont' want to be labelled? Just post your pic on the RHP pic site and we'll all judge you. Or do you not like the word "judge"? Ok we'll give you our opinions that are based on a judgement about whether you are cute or not.
Edit: Uh, if you're a guy then scratch the above.
However, if she sends in pictures, make sure personal details like names are not attached, and she should make sure she is wearing clothes.
Originally posted by uzlessno thank you. i'm good. i really am 'judged' enough. besides, i don't have any pics of me on the comp at all because i prefer to take pics of my friends... only occasionally of myself. and my camera is broken...😛
why all the beating around the bush? trying to avoid sounding modest? Dont' want to be labelled? Just post your pic on the RHP pic site and we'll all judge you. Or do you not like the word "judge"? Ok we'll give you our opinions that are based on a judgement about whether you are cute or not.
Edit: Uh, if you're a guy then scratch the above.
Originally posted by Bad wolfi don't do nude pics.
I would recommend against giving out any pictures to anyone on this site personally, sure, if you send one to rhp faces, lots of people have, but that'll take a while to get put up anyway. And purely because of age reasons, she being 14, sending in a picture is not the brightest of ideas.
However, if she sends in pictures, make sure personal details like names are not attached, and she should make sure she is wearing clothes.
Originally posted by domino971You talk to me like you think I am a female lol...I know what guys are like because I am a guy and having a personality doesn't mean you don't like cute girls. Sure being cute is an opinion but most people will agree when somebody looks good and when somebody is ugly. First, you should just be friends with him and live your life, you are too young to be worrying about all of this stuff you should just be having fun. Second, if he really is your friend he will not stop being your friend just because you ask him out.
ummm... i would love to be with him... and yet still remain friends.
here's a new difficulty into the problem. my best friend hates him.
Originally posted by tomtom232What I'm wondering is....if you're a guy, then who is that on your profile pic?
You talk to me like you think I am a female lol...I know what guys are like because I am a guy and having a personality doesn't mean you don't like cute girls. Sure being cute is an opinion but most people will agree when somebody looks good and when somebody is ugly. First, you should just be friends with him and live your life, you are too young to be wo ...[text shortened]... , if he really is your friend he will not stop being your friend just because you ask him out.
Originally posted by tomtom232got that.
You talk to me like you think I am a female lol...I know what guys are like because I am a guy and having a personality doesn't mean you don't like cute girls. Sure being cute is an opinion but most people will agree when somebody looks good and when somebody is ugly. First, you should just be friends with him and live your life, you are too young to be wo ...[text shortened]... , if he really is your friend he will not stop being your friend just because you ask him out.
one of the things that might be the reason why i kinda thought you were a girl is because you have a pic of a girl on your profile...
but i'm gonna talk to you the same anyway.
what i meant by guys having a personality is that they like a girl for more than just their body. they actually care about HER personality. there really are guys like that.
Originally posted by domino971Yeah there are but looks always play into it...guys only talk about good personalities if the girl looks decent and he can fantasize about her.
got that.
one of the things that might be the reason why i kinda thought you were a girl is because you have a pic of a girl on your profile...
but i'm gonna talk to you the same anyway.
what i meant by guys having a personality is that they like a girl for more than just their body. they actually care about HER personality. there really are guys like that.