Originally posted by el kreemobi've had boyfriends before... but yeah, you're right. a lot of girls have no self-esteem and sill sleep with any guy. i am lucky enough to know several that don't do that!!! ^^
I just want to say that it is great that you are going to have sex with him just because. it is great to see that there is a girl in the day and age that has self esteem and respect for herselfs. it is about flipping time.
I say wait 2-3 year if possible. it is pretty pointless to date when you are only 14. your life is just beginning don't worry about boys just yet.
Originally posted by XEvilXDreamsXand hannah. and ella. and karla... and a few others!!!!!!!!!! heeheehee!!!!!! i'm really hyper!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! 😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀
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Originally posted by domino971its great that you have some good friends. I hope you and your friends keep your self-esteem mentality when you get older.
i've had boyfriends before... but yeah, you're right. a lot of girls have no self-esteem and sill sleep with any guy. i am lucky enough to know several that don't do that!!! ^^
Originally posted by domino971Originally posted by pawnhandler
and you consider sleeping with him good/excellent advice?
Take nothing for granted. Ask. If she can't ask then it can't be much of a relationship.
Originally posted by leisurelysloth
Opinion: Tell the guy exactly how you feel. Tell him the whole thing. Tell him how much you appreciate his friendship and what it means to you, and how you are scared of messing it all up here. And tell him how you want it to be more than that. If you don't you will regret it.
Originally posted by zeeblebot
go ahead and try, if it doesn't work, find some different friends. picture yourself three years from now without him, are you going to be hanging out in a cave on a mountaintop eating weeds and pining for him still, if it doesn't work out?
Originally posted by domino971
i don't necessarily want good advice, i just want a guy to tell me what he thinks that i should do. and as i'm sure has been pointed out, this site does consist greatly of guys.
etc.
Originally posted by pawnhandlergood point. okay, i see what you are saying.
Originally posted by pawnhandler
Take nothing for granted. Ask. If she can't ask then it can't be much of a relationship.
Originally posted by leisurelysloth
Opinion: Tell the guy exactly how you feel. Tell him the whole thing. Tell him how much you appreciate his friendship and what it means to you, and how you are scared of messing it all up here. ...[text shortened]... as i'm sure has been pointed out, this site does consist greatly of guys.
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but there is also stuff like this:
Originally posted by huckleberryhound:
I think if you're asking chess players for dating advice, you should do what any good girl eventually does.....doink his best friend, why wait till yous are married
Originally posted by tomtom232:
Bring him to a cheap hotel and [VIEWER DISCRETION IS ADVISED].
etc. things like that started popping up and continued in much more magnitude on the 3rd page forward.