Originally posted by Sunburntbut i am in the right place for nonserious advice. i've taken all the serious advice i can! i'm sick of it!
You are in the wrong place for serious advice, hon.
besides, i haven't taken ANYONE'S advice yet, not even my best friends. i'm doing this mostly for the pure amusement of it... !🙄
Originally posted by Bad wolfi know... and you're right... but... well... I would feel different. i would be wondering what he thought about that new bit of info... i would be knowing that, if he didn't return those feelings, that i wasn't what he needed to fulfil his dreams like he is to me...🙁
Then clearly this friendship can survive a bit of awkwardness. 😛
Originally posted by domino971So let me get this straight: you and he are 14, and you were 4 when you held hands or something?
i know... and you're right... but... well... I would feel different. i would be wondering what he thought about that new bit of info... i would be knowing that, if he didn't return those feelings, that i wasn't what he needed to fulfil his dreams like he is to me...🙁
Originally posted by pawnhandlernot quite... yes, we are 14. i said about 10 years. we broke up when we were about six, about two years before i moved across the country. actually... we broke up at about the time that we, my family, started actually talking about moving and really getting ready to make the preparations and stuff. and yes we held hands, and we also kissed. not that we really knew what kissing was or signified. but we knew it was some sort of symbol of love and we really thought that we loved each other. and the thing is is that i believe we really did love each other. and at the very least on my end, that love survived. stored away for about 7 years, completely forgotten, but still in exisitence...
So let me get this straight: you and he are 14, and you were 4 when you held hands or something?
Originally posted by domino971And now some background music for you and your brothers situation
not quite... yes, we are 14. i said about 10 years. we broke up when we were about six, about two years before i moved across the country. actually... we broke up at about the time that we, my family, started actually talking about moving and really getting ready to make the preparations and stuff. and yes we held hands, and we also kissed. not that we rea ...[text shortened]... t love survived. stored away for about 7 years, completely forgotten, but still in exisitence...
Originally posted by domino971domino, I showed you disrespect. I did not know that you were 14. Forgive me for my crass comment.
you don't know him! you don't get it! if you think that he is like that then you may as well just go away... i don't know about whether or not he hangs out with me in attempt to get 'laid', i for one highly doubt it. but i know that no matter what we are really friends! i'm not 'just a plaything'! i don't hang out with a single guy that would consider me ' ...[text shortened]... y can find some girl that wants to be for all i care! i don't put up with that crud!
Be strong and true to yourself. Know what is positive for you. Avoid that which provides negative energy. The answers lie within.
Originally posted by badmoonthank you.
domino, I showed you disrespect. I did not know that you were 14. Forgive me for my crass comment.
Be strong and true to yourself. Know what is positive for you. Avoid that which provides negative energy. The answers lie within.
perhaps i'm going to crazy over him... we are young! have we not yet the world to find the wone we truly love?
yet... i have thought that i loved before and now i know that that was wrong. i know that at the very least as children we did love each other... and i can't help but to believe that that love stayed with us throughout the years. and i have rediscovered mine. i just do not yet know whether he has rediscovered it or if it even still exists in him...