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@vivify said
Unwritten social rules are kind of fascinating.

One I've noticed: it's okay for women to go barefoot at work, church or weddings. Every office I've worked in, at some point women kick off their shoes and walk around barefoot, usually near the afternoon. Same for church and weddings.

At the same it, it would most likely be inappropriate of guys to kick of their shoe ...[text shortened]... oken thing every just seems aware of.

This is not a complaint, just something I find interesting.
Once at work I walked without shoes to the toilet and back.


@Ghost-of-a-Duke said
I dislike that unwritten rule.
Expected that from a man.


@Torunn said
Expected that from a man.
He's clearly never been to a nuddist beach...


@vivify

culture this and culture that
there's this one culture where you cain't wear a hat
it offends the bald, that's what they say
but all i watch is shoeless women
and frequent the places they play

what are yer wife's thoughts on yer foot fetish?


@A-Unique-Nickname said
He's clearly never been to a nuddist beach...
I'm at one now sir.


@Ghost-of-a-Duke said
I'm at one now sir.
Why do I find that very difficult to believe? 😛 🙂

-VR

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@Ghost-of-a-Duke said
Durkheim maybe?
The father of sociology? Perhaps. The idea certainly dovetails with his other ideas, such as structural functionalism. He also brought science into social science. As a student of Jung, I liked how his ideas of "collective consciousness" is similar to Jung's "collective unconscious". Overall, good call.


@A-Unique-Nickname said
He's clearly never been to a nuddist beach...
I've never heard of this "nuddism" of which you speak.

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@Ghost-of-a-Duke said
Can't say I've ever noticed a women take her shoes off at work, especially if barefoot. - Even if it was cool for men to do that, I don't think I would on communal flooring.
Where I work, you'd be escorted out if you did that. It's a semi-industrial atmosphere and it is a safety issue.

But yeah. On communal flooring? Er, no.


@Drewnogal said
I’ve started acknowledging stranger’s dogs if they come near my dog while we’re out walking. The reason being that my dog is a rescue border collie and she’s anxious about other dogs coming near her. She’s much calmer if I chat to a stranger and chat to their dog rather than say nothing to them. As for the strangers? They probably just think I’m old and a bit nutty which is ...[text shortened]... at older men but never at men in general or schoolboys because that wouldn’t be acceptable would it?
Bah. I smile at everybody, and if someone's going to twist their knickers over it, I say let them.

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Snot Rockets.

Okay for the dudes.

If a woman does it, she can probably beat you up.
Or at the least, throw a baseball faster.
Other than those two parameters,...taboo for the ladies.

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Farts.

Funny with the dudes.

Not impressed when ladies do it.

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Fighting.

Never grab your spouse or friend from behind to try and stop them from fighting.

You are only putting them at risk of getting hurt.

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Housekeeping.

The unwritten rule is the ladies do it.

If you're a man and you clean up, do the laundry and cook a good meal, you will absolutely impress the ladies.

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Saying hello to someone you know just because they are there at that time.

I don't.

People usually want to be left alone.

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