Loser First-Date Locations
Brought to you by Sara Eckel and Match.com
You'd like to think the success of a first date is all about chemistry, connection, good conversation...but sometimes, where you are and what you're doing can play a key role in whether things go well or not. So, if you want to start a potential relationship off on good footing, please, we beg you, listen to what our 2,000 survey respondents said, and don't take your love interest on the following dates.
81% of you would avoid...family functions
Your date will be nervous enough trying to impress you--don't make them audition for family and friends too. "Who needs that pressure?" says Wyatt, 32, from Lafayette, Colorado. "My family is so far from normal I wouldn't let a date near them."
34% of you would avoid...dance clubs
Loud music, pulsing lights, guys without shirts...need we say more? "Everyone's on the prowl. That would be very uncomfortable," explains Rosie, 31, from Modesto, California. We have to agree.
31% of you would avoid...movies
You spend two lame hours staring at a screen, not getting to know each other...plus there's always a risk the flick will contain a sex scene or something even more awkward. John, 28, from Boston, recalls taking a date to a David Lynch film. "Her reaction was, 'Why did you take me to this?'" he says.
28% of you would avoid...bars
Many people think alcohol is the perfect social lubricant for a first encounter, but it can lead to trouble. "No way," says Jim, 41, from Canton, Michigan. "I might say or do something foolish."
24% of you would avoid...sporting events
Any place that involves face paint, the wave, and angry drunk guys screaming at the referee is no venue for a soul mate connection. William, 23, from Upland, Indiana also points out they don't bring out the best in men: "Guys can seem a little too aggressive, and women might find that scary."
15% of you would avoid...the beach
Just because you like strolling hand in hand seaside doesn't meet you should do it on your first meeting. Karen, 28, from Dallas, concurs. "It's hard enough to pick out a cute little black dress," she says. "How do you pick out a perfect bikini?"
15% of you would avoid...comedy shows
If the comic is bad, that lame vibe will extend to the entire evening. "Comedy is great when it's good. But horrid when it's bad," says Anne, 37, from Spokane, Washington.
13% of you would avoid...mini-golf
Trying to outsmart that little windmill is great fun--if you're ten years old. "If you're anything like me, you're clumsy when you're nervous...Bad idea for a first date!" says Angie, 28, from Lima, Ohio.
11% of you would avoid...theme restaurants
Never take a first date to a restaurant where your waiter is dressed like Chubby Checker, Fred Flintstone or Quasimodo. Beth, 32, from Brooklyn, New York, recalls her awful date at a medieval-themed restaurant. "You have to either pretend there aren't people in bloomers delivering your food, or keep making jokes like, 'I think I'll have the ye olde steak,'" she says.
9% of you would avoid...museums
A first date is a time to kick back and relax, not solemnly contemplate the works of the great masters. "It's a little too much intellectual stimulation for a first date," says Amy, 27, of Cherry Hill, New Jersey.
9% of you would avoid...coffee houses
Many people think that meeting for coffee is an easy, breezy way to meet cute. But let's face it: It's hardly romantic. Or as Sandi, 40, from Tampa, Florida, put it: "Borrrrring!"
Sara Eckel writes for Glamour, Self, and Cosmopolitan--and actually wouldn't mind going mini-golfing on a first date.
Note: Percentages add up to more than 100% because some respondents made multiple selections.
My wife has been watching a show called "Hooking Up" or something like that about people who meet online and go for a date.
Last night early in the show they show this slightly homely woman meeting this horned up internet guy. The guy says...
"Yeah, I'm not going to be around long... I just wanted to meet you."
The girl says, "That's cool, I just wanted to meet you too."
The guy says, "Cool, ok... I got to go."
Pretty blunt, pretty funny... sorta seemed like he was saying "I won't be in town long..." but was really saying....
"See Ya!"
P-
Originally posted by seraphimvulturehow bout a hay ride?
That's what I was gunna ask, yeah, where the hell else is there? Personally I've had a lot of luck with the movie theater so meh.
anyway I saw this daytime show called Elimidate. Boy was that dumb. A girl or guy gets 4 dates and must tell one to leave after each event they attend. The girls always get into stupid arguements. I'd just tell them all to leave.
Originally posted by arrakisLOL. Guys who take their shirts off at clubs are eff-ay-gee-ess. It's so hilarious when I see the 905 trash at some clubs do this and walk around with their other shirtless buddies, picking up trashy 905 girls with a$$holes for lips.
34% of you would avoid...dance clubs
Loud music, pulsing lights, guys without shirts...need we say more? "Everyone's on the prowl. That would be very uncomfortable," explains Rosie, 31, from Modesto, California. We have to agree.
Oh God, I hate clubs. Probably more than anything else in the world.
All those other locations are fine and dandy. Even a family function since my family is highly entertaining.
Originally posted by arrakisI prefer a neutral 24 diner. The idea is me getting to know her, not being romantic. If she is smart, and witty, then I get romantic.
Loser First-Date Locations
Brought to you by Sara Eckel and Match.com
You'd like to think the success of a first date is all about chemistry, connection, good conversation...but sometimes, where you are and what you're doing can play a key role in whether things go well or not. So, if you want to start a potential relationship off on good footing, plea ...[text shortened]...
Note: Percentages add up to more than 100% because some respondents made multiple selections.
Originally posted by buffalobillNothing but, and don't litter in front of your date. Not cool. Be sure to pack everything up and properly dispose of all garbage. If it's evening a little campire will help rid most rubbish and you can make some tasty smores for dessert.
Ozone friendly, I hope?
Originally posted by thecheat2This works with bit*hes-kind girls,not if oyu're seraching the woman of your life.
How about the bar for a few drinks and then the back seat of your car.
If she gets drunk and follows you in a car back seat she's definitely NOT the woman for me.
in 1993, in the first date i took her to the national science museum. i thought that calm and safe place for talking and passing some serious time.
we are married since 1999 and from then I heard thousands times of what a boring person i am to take someone to a place like that in the first date!!