Originally posted by sjegI don't think you're that far off... If you are chasing after just 1 woman you are under pressure to always get it right. Chasing a few women keeps the pressure off. Just spend the next few weeks getting a few numbers. Then fire out a few texts and see which come back as a flirty chat. This will keep you seeming interesting to the women but by chasing several you wont come across as needy. The trick is knowing when to call off the chase and just stick with one girl. Good luck.
Sadly, I didn't write the half of it in that post.
Think I'll plump for some drunkenness around about now. Cheers toi you all.
Bowmann a counsellor... think I might skip the Guinness and go striaght for the whiskey...
Originally posted by horseyThanks horsey, that was a decent reply. Really, I'd just like a bit of fun for a while> That last relationship broke me old ticker and used so much of my energy you couldn't imagine. It really was poisoning my life, while I was putting so much into that, and not much into anything else...
I don't think you're that far off... If you are chasing after just 1 woman you are under pressure to always get it right. Chasing a few women keeps the pressure off. Just spend the next few weeks getting a few numbers. Then fire out a few texts and see which come back as a flirty chat. This will keep you seeming interesting to the women but by chasing sev ...[text shortened]... dy. The trick is knowing when to call off the chase and just stick with one girl. Good luck.
Anyway, phone numbers. That's the ticket. And focus on a few... like it. You're bound to get a few knock backs or dodgy birds who want to mess with you or their boyfriends.
But you know how it is, you get rusty. You lose the edge. Got to just get out there and chat up as many babes as I can, never mind the result. Excellent...
Good man, horsey
Originally posted by mokkoDo you have any new photos I can add to my collection? I've used up all the others 😉
I never said men were terrible. Just creepy. And you are. All of you. What kind of self respecting man goes out getting drunk and stoned trying to boink women they just met? Creepy x 100.
Originally posted by mokkoWhat have you got against boinking? In fact what is so bad about being a creep so long as you are an honest creep? And I happen to respect a mild mannored creepy drunk. I think it is just about time to take this issue to debate.
I never said men were terrible. Just creepy. And you are. All of you. What kind of self respecting man goes out getting drunk and stoned trying to boink women they just met? Creepy x 100.
boinking makes the world go 'round, but how you get to the boinking stage is the key...stop focusing on the "energy" or "effort" it takes to find the one girl/guy or the many girls/guys that you are going to target. IT TAKES NO ENERGY AT ALL!! believe me 🙂 be yourself, have fun, don't be obvious about the fact that you are trying to get laid, (unless it is a mutual thing) and it will all happen naturally-maybe not as fast as you would like, but there will be many less rejections along the way.
Originally posted by wendewDr. Ruth?
boinking makes the world go 'round, but how you get to the boinking stage is the key...stop focusing on the "energy" or "effort" it takes to find the one girl/guy or the many girls/guys that you are going to target. IT TAKES NO ENERGY AT ALL!! believe me 🙂 be yourself, have fun, don't be obvious about the fact that you are trying to get laid, (unless it is a ...[text shortened]... maybe not as fast as you would like, but there will be many less rejections along the way.
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Originally posted by mokkoWhy is it that there's a certain kind of woman (example given here), and rather a well represented kind in your sex, who think that venturing a vague opinion on a topic is akin to making a point or contributing to a debate.
I never said men were terrible. Just creepy. And you are. All of you. What kind of self respecting man goes out getting drunk and stoned trying to boink women they just met? Creepy x 100.
You think men are creepy. So what have we established? That men are creepy, or that you have issues that you'd do well to resolve?
If you want to discuss the good and bad points of either sex, go for it.
My previous point was that if we go out and get drunk and chat up women, our intentions are clear.
We say and do what we mean. Women, on the other hand, and I'm basing this not alone on personal experience but also on a generally accepted human truth, tend to say one thing and mean another entirely.
Nell'onde solca e nell'arene semina
e 'l vago vento spera in rete accogliere
chi sue speranze funda in cor di femina Sannazaro, Arcadia VIIIe 10-12
(He ploughs the waves and seeds the sands
and hopes the wandering wind to capture in his net
he who bases his hopes in the heart of woman)
Originally posted by sjegIt stems from centuries of oppression. We have hundreds of years of dysfunction beat into us to always say what men want to hear. Not what we actually think. It's time to break the cycle. I think men are creepy. And quite frankly just al ittle bit sad. Like dogs that chase after their own tails.
Women, on the other hand...... tend to say one thing and mean another entirely.