Originally posted by Shallow Blue
At below 1000? It doesn't happen, and cannot happen. To attack, you need pieces. To defend, you need a position. To get a position, you must learn how to build one, and the best way to do that is experience. And how are you going to get that experience? Attack! Defending can and will come when you're ready for it.
Richard
Oh, I hadn't realized OP was under 1000. At that level, one's just gotta stop dropping pieces. Hell, you could say that about any level but under 1000, it's just a bad case of dropping pieces too often without a fight. Studying tactics is huge at this level. Nobody can say they are getting better at defence if they are dropping pieces before move 20 all the time.
If OP's tactical ability matches his intelligence, he ought to study ways to get better at defending(assuming he's actually an 1100 like he says he is without timing out so much). If it doesn't, he has to stop dropping so many pieces. When he can say "Hey man, it's not that I'm dropping pieces, it's that I'm failing to take advantage of tactics to win.", that's when he can work on his defensive abilities.
Time management becomes a serious issue at that point, and making better defensive moves allows him the extra time to calculate the tactics better. In this case, a good defense is a good offense. That actually brings up an interesting point: Is time management more important for players defending or players attacking? Not every player is solely one of these, and they will encounter positions that might go against their nature.
Of course, I'm just speaking from the perspective of a live chess player. I have no idea how it works in correspondence chess.
It's much easier to refute unsound sacrifices in correspondence chess. So I imagine it's a fierce positional battle in that kind of chess.
I still think the art of defence in chess is huge, and far more important than learning how to attack. Everyone has sharp lines that they prepare against you, and you must defend against them over the board/online.
I've never seen a more stressful way of playing chess than going straight for the opponent's throat. I feel time management is a huge issue for very aggressive players, because they have to calculate the tactics extremely well in the first place. "I might be down material, but I know I can finish off my opponent".
I have never understood the mindset of working so hard for the win and taking huge risks. But, to each their own. Both offence and defence have earned their respective world championship titles.