Originally posted by Dudermooner
Ahhh...gotcha. So what would you say the majority of players would do? Sacrafice queen for queen early on or defend the pieces by retreating or offering up a pawn or such.
Just one point - if you trade like for like on the chess board it is called an 'exchange'. A sacrifice is the temporary giving up of a piece for some (hopefully) decisive gain (positional or material), often in the process of forcing checkmate.
You will develop your own style (aggressive or defensive) as you develop your game. However you must remember that aggressive play and suicidal play are a thin line apart, and often the best way to play is to be patient, and completely flexible. Trying to set yourself rules such as 'exchange queens early' or even 'exchange queens if you are black' are potentially deeply flawed. Always play to the requirements of the exact position in front of you. Exchanging queens as black may just as likely increase whites advantage by reducing your counterplay options as it may increase blacks chances by refuting whites attack. It will depend on the position at the time.
I am currently playing half a dozen players rated over 2000 in clan games. None are playing me any differently in the first dozen moves to the higher rated players they routinely play. Their decisive advantage will no doubt come, but as a result of accumilating small advantages throughout the opening and middlegame, until it is finally time to strike. They have not tried to be 'quick to the kill' just because they are rated so much higher. They are rated higher precisely because they are patient and play the best move, regardless of opposition.
Don't confuse being passive with being patient. Patience is a virtue in chess, being passive will routinely lead to disaster.