GinoJ- don't be obnoxious. If neither of them see a move, they don't see a move-it doesn't make them morons, it means their board vision is weaker than yours. Lots of people in that category and I'd wager a lot that can see more than you- no news there.
kumanotchi- your opponent needs to move in the allotted time- if not you can claim the win. He can also resign if he has no idea what to do. Giving or asking for advice on a game in progress is not allowed. It's his move and his problem, not yours.