25 Feb '14 15:57>2 edits
My attitude toward authority is a paraphrase of Thomas Paine.
Authority, at best, is but a necessary evil; at worst, an intolerable one.
I recognize the need for some authority. Children need a parent or guardian to guide them to maturity. Society needs a government that will handle the many details of maintaining infrastructure, defense, natural resources, etc. Workplaces need good leaders, or else the workforce will not move in unison on anything.
However, I have never been much for following the commands of an authority figure simply because they say so. I do better when the commands actually make sense. This does not mean they must do everything exactly as I think they should; it just means that, even if their course of action is not what I would do, it at least seems reasonable.
I really hate arrogance in an authority figure. It puts me on the defensive, and I start weighing how much I can get away with defying their directives now, and in the future.
To me, an effective leader projects confidence, but not arrogance. They give their followers a chance to weigh in, consider the options, and make their decision. They do not wait until they have pleased everyone (because that is not possible).
Also, an effective leader recognizes the bounds of their authority, and does not exceed them. My boss at work does not tell me what to do outside of work. My government official does not tell me to do something unless there is a specific law empowering that directive. My parent (for those who are kids) does not punish me in anger (which leads to abuse).
Obligation is a two-way street. The authority figure must not forget that they are given authority for a beneficial reason. If they lose sight of serving their purpose, they can, and should, be removed.
My obligation to them is to follow their directives, so long as they are reasonable. If they are not, I must resist to a degree matching their departure from reasonableness. Following authority absolutely leads to Milgram experiment-like situations in which a chain of command is carrying out grievous moral wrongs, with each link of the chain blaming it on the other links.
Authority, at best, is but a necessary evil; at worst, an intolerable one.
I recognize the need for some authority. Children need a parent or guardian to guide them to maturity. Society needs a government that will handle the many details of maintaining infrastructure, defense, natural resources, etc. Workplaces need good leaders, or else the workforce will not move in unison on anything.
However, I have never been much for following the commands of an authority figure simply because they say so. I do better when the commands actually make sense. This does not mean they must do everything exactly as I think they should; it just means that, even if their course of action is not what I would do, it at least seems reasonable.
I really hate arrogance in an authority figure. It puts me on the defensive, and I start weighing how much I can get away with defying their directives now, and in the future.
To me, an effective leader projects confidence, but not arrogance. They give their followers a chance to weigh in, consider the options, and make their decision. They do not wait until they have pleased everyone (because that is not possible).
Also, an effective leader recognizes the bounds of their authority, and does not exceed them. My boss at work does not tell me what to do outside of work. My government official does not tell me to do something unless there is a specific law empowering that directive. My parent (for those who are kids) does not punish me in anger (which leads to abuse).
Obligation is a two-way street. The authority figure must not forget that they are given authority for a beneficial reason. If they lose sight of serving their purpose, they can, and should, be removed.
My obligation to them is to follow their directives, so long as they are reasonable. If they are not, I must resist to a degree matching their departure from reasonableness. Following authority absolutely leads to Milgram experiment-like situations in which a chain of command is carrying out grievous moral wrongs, with each link of the chain blaming it on the other links.