Originally posted by black beetleThat's nice that it's worked out well for them. We are all hopping, and those that do, praying that my freinds baby will be. I've heard lots of possitive stories about premature babies.
It 's quite natural. All the early born babes of my relatives and our friends, and they 're many, are now well growned up adults with excellent physical condition, although two-three of them spent some weeks in an incubator. Also, a friend of us gave birth to a boy and later to a girl wich both were born early, and today they are both quite healthy and ...[text shortened]... children (now, that girl is a 32 years old lady and has an early born, totally healthy son)
Originally posted by black beetleYes it would have been and it wasn't much of a life as she was.
Terribly sorry for your loss my friend. But it would be extremely hard for Hermione to keep on suffering;
Originally posted by yo its meYou will need to come to grips with a couple things:
.....I had just spent a week going to Christian meetings and talking and praying with other Christians. I do not understand why this has happened, I don't think I ever will. .....
I prayed with people that any generational curses on Hermione be broken. That God knows everything going on in her body and that He would heal her.
My freind asked God to eit ...[text shortened]... n such pain and her life was so restricted. Now she feels guilty as well as all the heart ache.
Originally posted by yo its meSuch a loss is unbearable; I just hope that you will find the power to support your wife and to get through this devastating situation.
Yes it would have been and it wasn't much of a life as she was.
My friend has been robbed of every little part of parenthood from a glow in pregnancy to breastfeeding and skin to skin hugging. No parent expects to have to out live their child. I can think of nothing worse. The desease she had was SMA where they get better and then weaker till they are s ...[text shortened]... nd focusing her hand held my finger as I said good bye. I've never felt pain like this before.
Originally posted by yo its meThat is a sad story. I hope that Hermione did not suffer much. I also hope the mother will be able to cope with what must be a very difficult experience. I think the best thing you can do now is to be a good friend to her; to be understanding, sympathetic, compassionate toward any struggles she might have. It seems you are already on this path since you seem to hold genuine concerns for her.
Hermione, that is her name, died today at 10.24 am.
I said my good bye yesterday with others who love her and hoped there would be a miracle. But obviously that wasn't to be.
I had just spent a week going to Christian meetings and talking and praying with other Christians. I do not understand why this has happened, I don't think I ever will. My freind ch pain and her life was so restricted. Now she feels guilty as well as all the heart ache.
Originally posted by LemonJelloOf course everything has a reason. However, whether God was a part of that reason or not is the only question.
I am sure some will offer you the blurb that "everything happens for a reason" (by which they mean something along the lines that even the difficult events in life happen for some greater, but hidden, purpose). I see no reason to think that is the case, however.
Originally posted by whodeyOf course everything has a reason.
Of course everything has a reason. However, whether God was a part of that reason or not is the only question.