"What goes on in the bedroom is between Me, my Wife and God."
Christians, have you heard this saying before? I'm sure most of you have. What does it mean to you? Is it a warning to those who would look at sex as something other than the sole means of procreation? Or is it a license to privacy such that a husband and wife may express their love in sexual means without fear of repression?
We have shown in the Oral Sex thread that there is no warning against it in the bible, yet oral sex does not add (or take away, for that matter) from the procreational process. Can the same be said for other "activities" outside of the good ol' missionary position?
Originally posted by darvlay Inspired by the Oral Sex thread:
"What goes on in the bedroom is between Me, my Wife and God."
Christians, have you heard this saying before? I'm sure most of you have. What does it mean to you? Is it a warning to those who would look at sex as something other than the sole means of procreation? Or is it a license to privacy such that a husband ...[text shortened]... ss. Can the same be said for other "activities" outside of the good ol' missionary position?
How do you define oral sex? When does an act of oral sex end?
Originally posted by darvlay Inspired by the Oral Sex thread:
"What goes on in the bedroom is between Me, my Wife and God."
Christians, have you heard this saying before? I'm sure most of you have. What does it mean to you? Is it a warning to those who would look at sex as something other than the sole means of procreation? Or is it a license to privacy such that a husband ...[text shortened]... ss. Can the same be said for other "activities" outside of the good ol' missionary position?
Originally posted by dj2becker Check out my "Mental couch potato" thread😉
No thank you. It's most likely another one of your cut n' paste jobs lifted from a biased and bogus religious website. Frankly, I've read enough of them to last me until Christ returns. i.e. an infinite amount of time.
Originally posted by darvlay No thank you. It's most likely another one of your cut n' paste jobs lifted from a biased and bogus religious website. Frankly, I've read enough of them to last me until Christ returns. i.e. an infinite amount of time.
I suppose I can't stop you from being a mental couch potato😉
Originally posted by darvlay LOL. Are you being serious?! LH, sometimes your questions are completely ridiculous.
Oral Sex? Mouth touching/licking/sucking/kissing genitals
When it ends? It ends when it ends. When else would it end?
EDIT - Quit trying to derail my thread before it's had a chance to get rolling!
I'm not trying to derail the process. Whether an act of sex aids or hinders the procreative process depends on whether the act (or the larger act it is part of) is open to the process of procreation or not. Since oral sex is inherently non-procreative, whether it aids or hinders the procreation depends on whether it is part of a larger act that is open to procreation.
Originally posted by lucifershammer I'm not trying to derail the process. Whether an act of sex aids or hinders the procreative process depends on whether the act (or the larger act it is part of) is open to the process of procreation or not. Since oral sex is inherently non-procreative, whether it aids or hinders the procreation depends on whether it is part of a larger act that is open to procreation.
Hence my question.
i think if it is part of a 'larger act' as you put it, it qualifies as 'foreplay' and not 'oral sex' per se
Originally posted by dfm65 i think if it is part of a 'larger act' as you put it, it qualifies as 'foreplay' and not 'oral sex' per se
Which is why I asked him to define the term. If it's simply a question of oral stimulation, then it may or may not be a complete sexual act in itself. You're defining it otherwise.