Originally posted by Grampy Bobby Ever wonder what your next of kin will have to say about you and your location the day or during the days after you've died?
No. Even with you asking me this question now, I see no reason to wonder about this at all. I sometimes wonder about what such people have said in the past, or are saying, or might one day say to me, or to each other about things that might concern me, or what I have said or what I might one day say to them, or what I should and shouldn't have said in the past, or what needs to be said or left unsaid, but I am certainly not concerned with what they might say after I am dead. It strikes me as a peculiar form of narcissism - although it might make sense to someone who believes in life after death or ghosts or seances, I suppose.
Originally posted by Grampy Bobby [b]One Pregnant Question
Ever wonder what your next of kin will have to say about you and your location the day or during the days after you've died?[/b]
Having just buried a loved one and seeing the out pouring of love towards him, I can only
hope that my life had the same positive effect on those I care about as his did. I don't really
think about it now, but it was impressive.
Originally posted by Grampy Bobby [b]One Pregnant Question
Ever wonder what your next of kin will have to say about you and your location the day or during the days after you've died?[/b]
Not really. (Why is the question pregnant?!)
My health has not been too great recently, so have i admit wondered what my family would 'do' without me (especially financially etc) but not what they would 'say' about me. And my location will be nowhere other than where they bury me. (Unless i'm eaten by a lion,....which is unlikely in North London).
Originally posted by Grampy Bobby [b]One Pregnant Question
Ever wonder what your next of kin will have to say about you and your location the day or during the days after you've died?[/b]
Never. My next of kin will know exactly where I am and my concern is more for them rather then what they, or anyone else for that matter, will say about me.