Originally posted by Nemesio
Hello Epiphineahs,
Because Jaywill is unable to post except in his usual convoluted style of unrelated, stream-of-
conscious creedal statements, it's going to take a while for me to wade through his voluminous
missive in order to divide his ideas into groups of related notions, but I did want to comment to
you first. Since you are capable of a cogent
individuals.
Nemesio
...a relationship indistinguishable from the one you have with your friends and colleagues (only better). It is that connotation of 'relationship' that I have a gripe.
Do you think Jesus is fundamentally incapable of having a profound personal relationship with those whom believe in and follow him?
My understanding of Christ's
agape love leads me to believe that he knows me far more intimately than I can know myself, character defects and all, and yet he loves me. I believe he is keenly aware of my heart's desires and fears, and is capable of speaking to me in the silence of my spirit, in a manner I am able to recognize intuitively (with some trial and error). And, furthermore, that he is capable of acting on my behalf in and around me, according to his gospel which declares that the kingdom of heaven is now
at hand. Dallas Willard, in his awesome book,
The Divine Conspiracy, talks at length how the Good News of the Gospel is really Jesus Christ himself, i.e., Jesus Christ himself is the kingdom of the heavens now
at hand.
The classic Jewish understanding of "heavens" has several connotations, Willard says, and the "first heaven" is precisely the air surrounding our bodies, through which we move and live. This kingdom, which Christ came to reveal to us, wherein God sees and operates, is right here among us - whether we are aware of it or not - and the main point of Christ coming in the flesh was to effect an engagement of every aspect of our being, from our highest intellectual capacity down to the sinew and the sweat of our brow, in a cooperative relationship with the kingdom of the heavens, present in the space immediately surrounding us.
I am an introspective and intellectual sort, so my communications with Jesus may be quite different than someone who happens to be more extroverted and less of a nerd, but I'm confident that Christ is capable of meeting people and communicating with them where ever they're at. I may not be comfortable with another person's relationship with Jesus, but then again I'm not that person. What's comfortable and natural (and most joyful and fulfilling) for them may not be so for me. I believe God is infinitely condescending to whatever our peculiarities may be, and I also think that he is more than capable of engaging someone at whatever level of intimacy and honesty they might dare, no matter how radical, heretical, or "improper" we might deem them.
You're right, I think, that a relationship with Jesus isn't exactly like a relationship with our friends and family. And it is always a danger for those who are inexperienced with listening to God and recognizing his voice to misrepresent a certain communication. But I also think it's true that a relationship with God himself is certainly offered to us, to become his adopted children in Christ, so that we too may cry out to the Father, "Abba!" or "Daddy!" The form that relationship takes is partly determined by who we are as people, our peculiarities, weaknesses, uniqueness, history, etc., and partly determined by the level of trust which we place in the presentness of God's kingdom.
In all honesty, I'm still a little embarrassed to talk with God on a personal level, as if he were near to me. I prefer to intellectualize my faith and conceptualize spiritual realities. Which is A-OK, but I've come to recognize that my embarrassment arises from an "orphan spirit" which I acquired in my life as a full-time sinner. Slowly but surely, as I become more and more acclimated to my status as an adopted child of God in Christ, I become more willing to relinquish my old habits of thought. Everybody's heart is wounded to some degree and we all need to heal, and the more we heal the more open we become to an active dependency upon the Lord - and less embarrassed about crying out to the Father, "Abba! Daddy!"
The primary difference, I think, between a relationship with God and a relationship with a friend or family member, is that a relationship with God is entirely built upon faith, whereas our more earthly acquaintances are not. But, also, I don't think one is any less real than the other.