Originally posted by LemonJello
I didn't mean that the age-old debate of "salvation by grace versus salvation by self righteousness" is crappy. I meant that your argument is crappy -- you know, the one you try to advance in the opening post of this thread. Your argument is crappy because nothing you present actually supports your conclusion that salvation by grace is "inescapab upholds obligation toward some deserving or meritorious recipient.
I think you don't understand grace or gratitude. If one believes in God at all then one realises that existence in it's entirety rests on God. The act of creating us is an act of "giving" . God gives us life , he gives of his own power , he gives of his own life in Jesus.
Jesus himself says " no-one comes to me unless the Father brings him" . What does this mean? It means that when a Christian comes to repentance he realises that the Holy Spirit has been guiding him to that point in his life.
A man cannot even repent unless God gives him the grace to do so.
A man cannot even see his need for the cross unless the Holy Spirit convicts him of sin.
A man cannot have it revealed to him that Jesus is the Son of God unless the Holy Spirit helps him and reveals it to him.
A man cannot love or show compassion for his neighbour unless God has nurtured and built this compassion in him.
A man cannot reflect the God of Love unless he is first loved by God.
This list could go on and on....but another realisation is also that any goodness or righteousness we have in our very own hearts is also a gift of God.
Think about it . Where does righteousness come from? ToO thinks he can change his own heart but it's an illusion. All he can do is CO-OPERATE with God's grace and have his heart changed by God.
The point is that he could not even think about changing his heart in the first place unless the Spirit of God stirred within him and inspired such a change.
The BiBle even says "in him we live and move and have our being" , this means that today , Lemon, God has been with you helping you and loving you in a way soooo subtle that you just take it for granted and don't even notice.
ToO exhorts us to live a life of righteousness but from where does the power to live this life come from? To claim it comes from within us and within us only is to claim self righteousness independent of God. And that's what sin is , it means separattion from God.
In essence pride and self reliance are the enemy and that's why grace undermines self reliance because you cannot go to God and say "look at this good righteousness within me , I am worthy of being saved". God will just say " yes I know , I put it there " .
Our righteousness can only be righteousness if it is the result of God's transforming love (which of course requires grace). If our righteousness denies God's grace then we are under the illusion of self righteousness and pride . It would be like the sea offering water back to the river and thinking that the water belonged to the sea.!!!
Christianity is about giving gratitude for that which we once took for granted. ToO cannot take God's forgiveness for granted for his past sins , if he does he is in to self righteousness.
As for your point about the child and the father , I don't know about you but I look back at my parents with gratitude now . At the time I just expected them to love me but later on in life I felt grateful and appreciated them more.