1. Donationbuckky
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    18 Feb '12 20:25
    Can sex be fun and not sinful ? Can I have sex with women outside of marriage and not be sent to Hell ?What is it about sex that seems so evil in the eys of the church. Sex seems to be the driving force behind almost everything according to shrinks .We have this animal sex drive but we are suppose to put a cork in it unless we want to breed .I hate unwanted preganacys as much as the next sinner but it does seem odd that sex is this powerful drive that we have naturally and it causes babies and sin .
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    18 Feb '12 21:211 edit
    you could allways try marrying more than one woman, many OT kings of the holy land had many wives, but they sinned in other ways. god has no problem with sex just its the way we use it. god must have seen it all so gets no shocks, just disapointment with us. but remember to be careful what you wish for you may just get it
  3. Standard memberkaroly aczel
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    18 Feb '12 22:47
    Originally posted by buckky
    Can sex be fun and not sinful ? Can I have sex with women outside of marriage and not be sent to Hell ?What is it about sex that seems so evil in the eys of the church. Sex seems to be the driving force behind almost everything according to shrinks .We have this animal sex drive but we are suppose to put a cork in it unless we want to breed .I hate unwanted p ...[text shortened]... s seem odd that sex is this powerful drive that we have naturally and it causes babies and sin .
    I guess this is following on from your other (Catholic priest) thread.

    In the hindu tradition I believe sex should be regulated for the true seeker for every drop of semen is held to be sacred.
    Thats why some of those eastern guys developed tantric sex, where you dont blow.

    I guess when you are younger it is good to go and get it out of you.
    There is no point in repressing sexual tendencies in the wrong way only to have disasterous results for when they do come out (again, your other thread is a good example).

    I believe it should start with batting off. You should be able to stop that first.
    Then sticking to one partner, and finally , after you have seen and tasted what the world can offer, and also , hopefully had a glimpse of the ultimate, the transcendent other worldly , you should be able to turn inwards and find the bliss of nirvana.
    This is just an ideal, There will be many variants to this.
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    19 Feb '12 00:24
    Originally posted by buckky
    Can sex be fun and not sinful ? Can I have sex with women outside of marriage and not be sent to Hell ?What is it about sex that seems so evil in the eys of the church. Sex seems to be the driving force behind almost everything according to shrinks .We have this animal sex drive but we are suppose to put a cork in it unless we want to breed .I hate unwanted p ...[text shortened]... s seem odd that sex is this powerful drive that we have naturally and it causes babies and sin .
    "Sex is natural sex is good; not everybody does it, but everybody should"

    G. Michael
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    19 Feb '12 01:48
    Is sex dirty?

    Only if its done right.


    Woody Allen
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    19 Feb '12 01:581 edit
    Originally posted by buckky
    Can sex be fun and not sinful ? Can I have sex with women outside of marriage and not be sent to Hell ?What is it about sex that seems so evil in the eys of the church. Sex seems to be the driving force behind almost everything according to shrinks .We have this animal sex drive but we are suppose to put a cork in it unless we want to breed .I hate unwanted p ...[text shortened]... s seem odd that sex is this powerful drive that we have naturally and it causes babies and sin .
    actually sex is a gift from God, the problem is that the world in which we live has
    degraded it, its no longer an act of giving, but of licentiousness. Clearly in a Biblical
    context sex out with marraige is forbidden, never the less, within these boundaries it
    is to be enjoyed in a God honouring way.

    (Proverbs 5:19-20) . . .Let her own breasts intoxicate you at all times. With her love
    may you be in an ecstasy constantly.  So why should you, my son, be in an ecstasy
    with a strange woman or embrace the bosom of a foreign woman?

    (Song of Solomon 1:13-14) . . .As a bag of myrrh my dear one is to me; between
    my breasts he will spend the night.  As a cluster of henna my dear one is to me,
    among the vineyards of Engedi.”

    (Genesis 1:22) . . .With that God blessed them, saying: “Be fruitful and become
    many. . .
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    19 Feb '12 03:24
    Originally posted by robbie carrobie
    actually sex is a gift from God, the problem is that the world in which we live has
    degraded it, its no longer an act of giving, but of licentiousness. Clearly in a Biblical context sex out with marraige is forbidden
    but fortunately, the number of wives you're allowed to have is practically unlimited.

    so it's quiet easy to "marry" your slave-girl, not that she has much of a say in the matter, and have sex with her to your heart's content.

    nice set of rules...if you're a man.
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    20 Feb '12 12:16
    Originally posted by robbie carrobie
    actually sex is a gift from God, the problem is that the world in which we live has
    degraded it, its no longer an act of giving
    .
    sex is no longer an act of giving!!!! i think you are wrong there robbie.. i certainly 'gave it' to mrs spalfie last night.
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    20 Feb '12 13:301 edit
    Originally posted by stellspalfie
    sex is no longer an act of giving!!!! i think you are wrong there robbie.. i certainly 'gave it' to mrs spalfie last night.
    yes i am sure you did, whereas Mrs spalfie was probably thinking during her rather
    unfortunate ordeal, what she was going to make for tomorrows dinner. My point is, that
    it has been portrayed as an act of self gratification rather than the emphasis being
    placed upon giving.
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    20 Feb '12 14:38
    Originally posted by robbie carrobie
    yes i am sure you did, whereas Mrs spalfie was probably thinking during her rather
    unfortunate ordeal, what she was going to make for tomorrows dinner. My point is, that
    it has been portrayed as an act of self gratification rather than the emphasis being
    placed upon giving.
    ha! she didnt get enough time to plan a meal!! it went something like this -

    YouTube

    i think i might actually agree with you about the self gratification. tabloid press, movies, pornography, lads mags, gossip mags all have a lot to answer for in their portrayal of sex and in particular women as purely sex objects.
  11. Standard memberRBHILL
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    21 Feb '12 16:49
    Originally posted by buckky
    Can sex be fun and not sinful ? Can I have sex with women outside of marriage and not be sent to Hell ?What is it about sex that seems so evil in the eys of the church. Sex seems to be the driving force behind almost everything according to shrinks .We have this animal sex drive but we are suppose to put a cork in it unless we want to breed .I hate unwanted p ...[text shortened]... s seem odd that sex is this powerful drive that we have naturally and it causes babies and sin .
    you go to hell because your a sinner not for having sex, but for rejecting God's salvation.

    Tell you what though. When your not married you felling guilty though with your thoughs but when you are married you don't.

    God as my witness i waited to be married and it was worth the wait.
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    21 Feb '12 21:25
    Originally posted by RBHILL

    Tell you what though. When your not married you felling guilty though with your thoughs but when you are married you don't.
    id say it was the other way around.
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    21 Feb '12 22:07
    Originally posted by stellspalfie
    id say it was the other way around.
    I have never fell sinful or fearful from sex being married.
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    21 Feb '12 22:49
    Originally posted by RBHILL
    I have never fell sinful or fearful from sex being married.
    i know, you just said.......although you left out guilty this time.
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