Originally posted by LemonJello
halitose (you realize that's almost halitosis?):
needless to say, i found your initial post in this thread rather insulting and myopic. i also find your methods here rather ineffective. why are you tiptoeing around like a thief at ...[text shortened]... be happy...probably for reasons that are altogether very similar.
Okay here goes nothin'...
My definition of HAPPYNESS is contentment and inner peace. My happyness is based on my faith in God. I am content in life, because ultimately I know that God is in control. I cannot prove it, so don't ask me to. This contentment, together with a faith in the afterlife gives me inner peace.
Okay. Don't be insulted, but here is my hypothesis, on why, according to my definition of happyness, an athiest cannot be truly happy. If there is no God, and if the now, is all we have, then that is all we can aspire to enjoy and find happyness from, to the best of our definition of happyness. If there is no God and no ultimate authority, then whatever feels good that we should do. If it is drug or alcohol abuse, then so be it. But then why are drug addicts some of the unhappiest people in society? You can't really explain that from the athiest perspective.
Like putting wood on a fire; trying to just do what feels better, you are stoking an unquenshible fire. Never will this fire stop needing wood, because you'll always be looking for the next thrill and ride; the next fix, the next being layed, the next smile out of your child; the next family reunion; the next practical joke on the inlaws; The list can go on. Some of the criteria can be more noble, but ultimately its a viscious circle that leaves one panting for the next kick.
I still find it hard that man, as an evolved animal would need happyness. From the athiestic perspective, what are these emotional persuits? What are they for? Why do you need happyness, if all we are geared towards is survival and passing on our genes? Why do we need to do noble deeds, if they are in their very essence going against evolution (e.g. the firefighters during 9/11)? Did they just do that for a bigger pay cheque? What is noble anyway, other than the daydream of a greek philosopher? What would lead him to think "noble" thoughts?
I'll stop there with my questions for now and wait for a rebuttal. I hope I'm not stamping on anybody's toes here, but these are questions that I can't find reasonable answers for in the athiestic worldview, that is why I take the position that it do.