@suzianne saidWhen I die, there will be nobody addressing me-and-my-body as "you" anymore [unless it is in some kind of verbalized meditation] because I will be gone; it will be over, and there will be no more "I".
I believe the OP asked "where do YOU want to go when you die?" You are not your body.
So I want my body to "go" to the place that those who survive me think is right and fitting, and where they will be able to mourn my passing, as I explained.