๐๐ฝ Not sure who wrote this, but it’s deep:
”Every minute someone leaves this world behind. We are all in “the line” without knowing it. We never know how many people are before us.
We can not move to the back of the line.
We can not step out of the line.
We can not avoid the line.
So while we wait in line -
Make moments count.
Make priorities.
Make the time.
Make your gifts known.
Make a nobody feel like a somebody.
Make your voice heard.
Make the small things big.
Make someone smile.
Make the change.
Make love.
Make up.
Make peace.
Make sure to tell your people they are loved.
Make sure to have no regrets.
Make sure you are ready.”
@dj2becker saidBy having my affairs more or less in order on an ongoing basis, I try to leave myself reasonably "ready" to minimize the negative impact ~ of me suddenly not being here ~ on loved ones who outlive me.
Make sure you are ready.
@fmf saidThat’s very noble. It might also be wise to prepare oneself by letting go of any anger or grudges. I’m not implying you have any. Just speaking in general.
By having my affairs more or less in order on an ongoing basis, I try to leave myself reasonably "ready" to minimize the negative impact ~ of me suddenly not being here ~ on loved ones who outlive me.
@dj2becker said"Prepare oneself" for what?
That’s very noble. It might also be wise to prepare oneself by letting go of any anger or grudges. I’m not implying you have any. Just speaking in general.
@fmf saidThere's nothing noble or virtuous about death. Death is an interruption of life. Except in the case when one lays their life down for another. There is one whose life is more precious than can be imagined, whose sacrifice brought life back from death so that others may live.
I believe the finite nature of life makes it more precious.
Most just won't believe it. I guess they think they'll find some dignity in death by imagining death makes life seem more precious in the finality of life.
Life is most precious when it never ends.
@fmf saidNone of that will matter as you take your last breath. What will matter at that moment won't be what you leave behind, but what you sent ahead.
By having my affairs more or less in order on an ongoing basis, I try to leave myself reasonably "ready" to minimize the negative impact ~ of me suddenly not being here ~ on loved ones who outlive me.
@secondson said@fmf said
By having my affairs more or less in order on an ongoing basis, I try to leave myself reasonably "ready" to minimize the negative impact ~ of me suddenly not being here ~ on loved ones who outlive me.
@secondson said
None of that will matter as you take your last breath. What will matter at that moment won't be what you leave behind, but what you sent ahead.
It will matter to the loved ones who outlive me.
@dj2becker saidMake some brownies.
๐๐ฝ Not sure who wrote this, but it’s deep:
”Every minute someone leaves this world behind. We are all in “the line” without knowing it. We never know how many people are before us.
We can not move to the back of the line.
We can not step out of the line.
We can not avoid the line.
So while we wait in line -
Make moments count.
Make priorities.
Make the time.
...[text shortened]... e sure to tell your people they are loved.
Make sure to have no regrets.
Make sure you are ready.”
Mmmm. Brownies.
@secondson saidIf believing that your life is everlasting is very, very important to you, that's one thing, but surely knowing that your time on earth is limited ~ perhaps to only 70 or so years ~ makes each and every one of those years all the more precious? If there is an infinite number of years, how does that make each and every one of that limited number of years you have on Earth more precious?
Life is most precious when it never ends.
@fmf saidThat's correct, but it won't to you.
@fmf said
By having my affairs more or less in order on an ongoing basis, I try to leave myself reasonably "ready" to minimize the negative impact ~ of me suddenly not being here ~ on loved ones who outlive me.
@secondson said
None of that will matter as you take your last breath. What will matter at that moment won't be what you leave behind, but what you sent ahead.
It will matter to the loved ones who outlive me.
@fmf saidGoing to forget all about this speck of time in eternity.
If believing that your life is everlasting is very, very important to you, that's one thing, but surely knowing that your time on earth is limited ~ perhaps to only 70 or so years ~ makes each and every one of those years all the more precious? If there is an infinite number of years, how does that make each and every one of that limited number of years you have on Earth more precious?
@secondson saidWhat matters to the loved ones who outlive me will matter to me while I am still alive.
That's correct, but it won't to you.
@secondson saidI don't have any problem with life being finite.
Going to forget all about this speck of time in eternity.