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Is internet "bullying" actually bullying if it's done to anonymous users?

Assuming harassments go only as far as interactions with unknown avatars on websites and never cross over into the real world, can any amount of mistreatment online, no matter how harsh, really be considered bullying if names faces or any other personal info is never revealed?


@vivify

No.

Avatars and Usernames are fake personas.

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@Beowulf

What if something I say ends up hurting someone's feelings in real life? If I make comments with malicious intent that makes someone cry or get depressed or feel worse about their self worth, would you still not consider it bullying?


@vivify said
Is internet "bullying" actually bullying if it's done to anonymous users?

Assuming harassments go only as far as interactions with unknown avatars on websites and never cross over into the real world, can any amount of mistreatment online, no matter how harsh, really be considered bullying if names faces or any other personal info is never revealed?
When it is done to an anonymous user, yes, that makes sense. It can get murky if it is very much targeted at a specific anonymous user who is known to be a child. But what you are saying is basically right.

And, remember: the block button is invaluable!


@vivify said
Is internet "bullying" actually bullying if it's done to anonymous users?

Assuming harassments go only as far as interactions with unknown avatars on websites and never cross over into the real world, can any amount of mistreatment online, no matter how harsh, really be considered bullying if names faces or any other personal info is never revealed?
How many people have this avatar/core separation?

Isn't bullying in real life often directed at anonymous incarnates?


Isn’t’t bullying a part of the adolescent world? Children? I am not getting this issue. We talking about raising our bullied kids?
Surely not bullied adults....


@vivify said
Is internet "bullying" actually bullying if it's done to anonymous users?

Assuming harassments go only as far as interactions with unknown avatars on websites and never cross over into the real world, can any amount of mistreatment online, no matter how harsh, really be considered bullying if names faces or any other personal info is never revealed?
So if you know them it is not bullying?
Isn't it easier to get under a person's skin when you know them and what bothers them?


@vivify said
@Beowulf

What if something I say ends up hurting someone's feelings in real life? If I make comments with malicious intent that makes someone cry or get depressed or feel worse about their self worth, would you still not consider it bullying?
I consider bullying to be when it is affecting the person's life and they can't get away from it.
i.e...at school, at work, real life etc etc.

I don't consider it bullying when the person can just close a website to get away from it or block a user.


@vivify said
Is internet "bullying" actually bullying if it's done to anonymous users?

Assuming harassments go only as far as interactions with unknown avatars on websites and never cross over into the real world, can any amount of mistreatment online, no matter how harsh, really be considered bullying if names faces or any other personal info is never revealed?
Just because you can doesn't mean you should, this applies to many things in life. I could make shag doody cry like a little girl, but should I?

Luckily for shag, I probably wont.


@metal-brain said
So if you know them it is not bullying?
Isn't it easier to get under a person's skin when you know them and what bothers them?
Learn to freaking read, man.

No wonder you believe every fool theory you read.

He said it's not really bullying if it's anonymous (which I do not believe, by the way - go to reddit and tell me no one is bullied). How can you read what he wrote and seriously believe he said the opposite?


@beowulf said
I consider bullying to be when it is affecting the person's life and they can't get away from it.
i.e...at school, at work, real life etc etc.

I don't consider it bullying when the person can just close a website to get away from it or block a user.
Online bullying is real.

Kids are raised to be snowflakes by snowflake parents.

Emotionally neglected kids are also affected.

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@suzianne said
Online bullying is real.

Kids are raised to be snowflakes by snowflake parents.

Emotionally neglected kids are also affected.
Yes but in that context the kids all know each other.
Facebook or some other social media app mixed with school and such is a bad combination.
So it is very real for them and it can hurt.

The fact that they also don't remain anonymous doesn't help.

Now as far as attacking a username with an avatar and that's all we get...well no that is not bullying.


@vivify said
Is internet "bullying" actually bullying if it's done to anonymous users?

Assuming harassments go only as far as interactions with unknown avatars on websites and never cross over into the real world, can any amount of mistreatment online, no matter how harsh, really be considered bullying if names faces or any other personal info is never revealed?
I'd insert a Cobra Kai clip but I'm too lazy


@vivify said
Is internet "bullying" actually bullying if it's done to anonymous users?

Assuming harassments go only as far as interactions with unknown avatars on websites and never cross over into the real world, can any amount of mistreatment online, no matter how harsh, really be considered bullying if names faces or any other personal info is never revealed?
Yes. People have been driven to suicide by online bullying, without ever revealing their real names.


@vivify said
Is internet "bullying" actually bullying if it's done to anonymous users?

Assuming harassments go only as far as interactions with unknown avatars on websites and never cross over into the real world, can any amount of mistreatment online, no matter how harsh, really be considered bullying if names faces or any other personal info is never revealed?
why wouldn't it be? anonimity isn't a magic shield that protects against harassment just a welcomed shield to protect against the more dangerous elements that would take it even farther than mere harassment

Your online persona is how you conduct a certain activity. For all intents and purposes it IS you. Would any harassment you receive in a store, or on a bus be dismissed because the harassers don't know who you are?

Being online affords you more tools to protect against harrassment but these tools might be unknown to the less tech savvy or simply unavailable on certain sites. It may have less impact than someone saying the same thing to your face (though it can be argued harrassers go farther online because they too are protected by anonymity and from consequences). That's a long way though to dismissing it completely