Originally posted by STANGThe problem with that theory, Stang, is that someone can develop a fixed idea that I am their enemy, and I might be powerless to change their attitude towards me no matter how much I change my behaviour.
AND ONLY WE CAN FIX IT
It would be truer to say, only we can decide who our enemies are.
Originally posted by orfeoSo what would you do if someone developed an idea that you are their enemy ?
The problem with that theory, Stang, is that someone can develop a fixed idea that I am their enemy, and I might be powerless to change their attitude towards me no matter how much I change my behaviour.
It would be truer to say, only we can decide who our enemies are.