Originally posted by @tom-wolsey
sh76 said this as a show of compassion for mchill. We need more people like sh76 in the world.
Here is a prototypical story from the POV of a teenage boy.
The father relied on corporal punishment as a socially approved last resort just above acting on the threat of “Reform School”.
The next time corporal punishment happened, it wasn’t via the usual strapping with a belt, it was a whack to the head. Just a glancing blow, really.
The son had recently beaten the father at arm wrestling. Both of them knew this.
The son said if you hit me again I’ll hit you back. The father said I don’t know what else to do. The son said I’ll try to do better.
Things were not so bad after that. The dad stopped going corporal. The son behaved. He never used corporal punishment on his offspring, in fact this marked a turning point for the family, although one of the older sons never forgave. (Not hitting females was already a rule in the family.)
Years later, the son took up leatherworking. One thing he made was a leather belt. He gave it to his father.
The father insisted on being interred wearing his best suit, with that belt. (No jokes about his wanting to have it handy are allowed outside the family.)
I wonder how many stories like this there are?