@Suzianne

Originally posted by Very Rusty
FMF,
This is copy pasted from a paragraph of what suz said: NOW READ IT SLOWLY!! Try and absorb what she said instead of just skimming over it, and talking crap!!!

Suz said:
When my subscription lapses, I will not be renewing. Take that as you will, but you can rest assured that when my subscription is gone, so I will be. I am just not interested in ...[text shortened]... but you're not feeding off of me any more.

NOW DO YOU UNDERSTAND WHY SHE IS LEAVING?

-VR

Did you not read what she wrote just a few days ago on the other thread?

Originally posted by sonhouse
There is a saying, better to be quite and be thought a fool than to open your mouth and remove all doubt.

Might you not also apply this to Suzianne? I think her message was extremely foolish. But I don't think I have said anything foolish in its aftermath.

Originally posted by chaney3
There is nothing in Suzianne's message that I disagree with. It was sincere and heartfelt.

The fact that it ended with a....."oh yeah, and I will kick your ass IF I am ever unfortunate enough to meet you".......is just fine with me!!!!!

Good job Suzianne!!

Well then, you'll agree there was no obligation to keep it secret then, right?

Originally posted by chaney3
There is nothing in Suzianne's message that I disagree with. It was sincere and heartfelt.

The fact that it ended with a....."oh yeah, and I will kick your ass IF I am ever unfortunate enough to meet you".......is just fine with me!!!!!

Good job Suzianne!!

chaney3,

I completely agree with it 100%. She was very sincere and also very clear on why she would not be re-newing. I hope she does reconsider that part. FMF is just not worth it. All she has to do is put him on ignore. She can also get the program that they made so they couldn't see GB messages and she will not even have to see what he is saying.

I think that would be a better solution. Perhaps if you chat with her in private she may listen to you. I think you know her better than I do. I will also tell her the same but she will I assume see this message anyways. Suz you have lots of friends on here who wouldn't want to see you leave over this. I believe Crowley has the program he would probably send it to you. IF not, there are others who I am sure would pass it along to you.

-VR

Originally posted by Very Rusty
chaney3,

I completely agree with it 100%. She was very sincere and also very clear on why she would not be re-newing. I hope she does reconsider that part. FMF is just not worth it. All she has to do is put him on ignore. She can also get the program that they made so they couldn't see GB messages and she will not even have to see what he is saying.
...[text shortened]... than I do. I will also tell her the same but she will I assume see this message anyways.

-VR

She doesn't even like me Very Rusty, and I am well aware of that.

I am posting here because what FMF did was wrong. A personal message should be just that.....personal.

Originally posted by chaney3
There is nothing in Suzianne's message that I disagree with. It was sincere and heartfelt.

The fact that it ended with a....."oh yeah, and I will kick your ass IF I am ever unfortunate enough to meet you".......is just fine with me!!!!!

Good job Suzianne!!

If I sent you a private message sir, that if we ever met in real life I would hurt you, would you similarly be fine with that? (Honestly?)

Would you report my comment? Would you feel obliged to keep it secret? Would you owe me that, If you believed my comments were 'heartfelt'?

I was surprised by Suzianne's final comments when FMF copied them to me. (Yes, I was one of the recipients). Threats of harm, even when said in anger, do not sit comfortably with me. If we wouldn't accept them in real life, why should we do so over the internet?

With respect to Suzianne though (who I actually rather like) I will give her the opportunity to explain the comments in her post.

Originally posted by Ghost of a Duke
If I sent you a private message sir, that if we ever met in real life I would hurt you, would you similarly be fine with that? (Honestly?)

Would you report my comment? Would you feel obliged to keep it secret? Would you owe me that, If you believed my comments were 'heartfelt'?

I was surprised by Suzianne's final comments when FMF copied them ...[text shortened]... who I actually rather like) I will give her the opportunity to explain the comments in her post.

Goad,

I strongly disagree with you. She has already explained it all in her message that was posted on this very thread. This has been an on going daily thing for 6 months. Could you put up being harrassed daily for that long? I certainly couldn't and wouldn't as a matter of FACT.

-VR

Originally posted by Very Rusty
This has been an on going daily thing for 6 months. Could you put up being harrassed daily for that long?[/b]

I think you'll find it hard to substantiate this using my posting record and her posting record. I also think you won't bother to try.

Originally posted by chaney3
She doesn't even like me Very Rusty, and I am well aware of that.

I am posting here because what FMF did was wrong. A personal message should be just that.....personal.

chaney3,

Don't take it personal.

Not so very long ago her and I didn't get along so well either, but we do now.

Things can change, my friend. I am sure she appreciates your kind words towards her now.

-VR

Originally posted by Very Rusty

Not so very long ago her and I didn't get along so well either, but we do now.

Things can change, my friend. I am sure she appreciates your kind words towards her now.

In essence, this is why I didn’t block her future messages.

Originally posted by FMF
I think you'll find it hard to substantiate this using my posting record and her posting record. I also think you won't bother to try.

FMF,

You already saw what she said. You win! Let it go, hope you feel proud of yourself. Karma should look after the rest.

-VR

Originally posted by Very Rusty
You already saw what she said. You win! Let it go, hope you feel proud of yourself. Karma should look after the rest.

So you feel no need to substantiate your claim about cyber bullying?

Originally posted by Ghost of a Duke
If I sent you a private message sir, that if we ever met in real life I would hurt you, would you similarly be fine with that? (Honestly?)

Would you report my comment? Would you feel obliged to keep it secret? Would you owe me that, If you believed my comments were 'heartfelt'?

I was surprised by Suzianne's final comments when FMF copied them ...[text shortened]... who I actually rather like) I will give her the opportunity to explain the comments in her post.

With dread and aghast I read your text barely believing as the horror unfolded before my eyes like some catastrophic disaster! You of all people! with whom I shared a game of chess, the most noble and royal game, nay two or even three and there you were in cahoots with the now leprous FMF and loathed divegeester all along! Such a parcel of rouges never infested an internet forum before!

Had this been New Orleans 1856 sir you would have been smacked about the chops with my glove and called out at dawn, pistols or French foils for dishonouring a lady! The shame of it, who ever heard of such a thing among gentlemen of honour?