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a big pain in the neck ? mine are starting to be. One guy has so many contractors over you'd think he's building the Taj mahal . Nothing but pickup trucks up & down the street...


@mlb62 said
a big pain in the neck ? mine are starting to be. One guy has so many contractors over you'd think he's building the Taj mahal . Nothing but pickup trucks up & down the street...
Well mine are okay, there is now and then some works in the going, but all in good measure.

How long are the contractors at it? And how long will they be? Maybe rather have a few weeks of activity instead of months?

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@Ponderable
well this neighbor has been here about 3 yrs., but has had several "projects".. Last time it was landscapers in the front. Recently he put up a fence in the front which is NOT permitted under the CC&R's !!.


@mlb62 said
a big pain in the neck ? mine are starting to be. One guy has so many contractors over you'd think he's building the Taj mahal . Nothing but pickup trucks up & down the street...
I’ve always tried to be considerate with my neighbours. Mine are part of a 3 generational family living either side of me. We put each others bins out or bring them in and we often say hello or have a quick chat but have never been in each others houses. We are fair about sharing the parking spaces out the front and aren’t too noisy.

I’d hate to have to live close to people I can’t get along with as relaxing at home is so important for me. Are you generally sociable with your neighbours? Maybe ask about their plans in a curious way rather than express disapproval.

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@Drewnogal said
I’ve always tried to be considerate with my neighbours. Mine are part of a 3 generational family living either side of me. We put each others bins out or bring them in and we often say hello or have a quick chat but have never been in each others houses. We are fair about sharing the parking spaces out the front and aren’t too noisy.

I’d hate to have to live close to p ...[text shortened]... with your neighbours? Maybe ask about their plans in a curious way rather than express disapproval.
I live in a condominium of 79 apartments, two five-storey buildings, next to each other. These houses are new and I think nobody knew each other before we moved in. As we are co-owners, it's essential that we get along reasonably well. I don't know everyone of course, only a few, and I try to keep a healthy distance. We are quiet, considerate people but some have already managed to make a few enemies. 🙂


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@divegeester
unfortunately we do not have an official Home Owners Association. We have only a set of CC & Rs , which is written set of "rules" for all to follow. But no-one to enforce the rules in any manner. There are about 75 Custom homes in a gated community thats supposed to be keep out the riff-raff but good luck on that..

RE: the fence was tastefully done, but the point is , no-one else has a front fence !

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@Torunn
very good..the best thing to do is to enter your apartment, close the door and don't talk to anyone !! you are doing the right thing..

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@divegeester
some people just move into a neighborhood and don't give a damn about any standards. They are usually lower income , lower educated losers..


@mlb62 said
@divegeester
some people just move into a neighborhood and don't give a damn about any standards. They are usually lower income , lower educated losers..
@mlb62,
Just because they have a lower income or are lower educated, doesn't make them losers! It makes YOU sound uppity, as if by having more or being richer makes you a better person....that is something that could be debated.

-VR

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@Very-Rusty said
@mlb62,
Just because they have a lower income or are lower educated, doesn't make them losers! It makes YOU sound uppity, as if by having more or being richer makes you a better person....that is something that could be debated.

-VR
sir, you don't have the facts...SEVERAL other residents have come to me to tell me they feel the same way too !! 😁 . my wife & I were one of the first here, long before the "Winchester" house was built !!




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