Fire them both just before Christmas and save some money. That's how we do things over here.
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I agree about going with your wife's idea. I hear that women are more holographically minded especially when it comes to social nuances (admittedly, this could be part of a campaign of disinformation). But I would also ask, "What about something for J?"
I just had, as usual, a brilliant idea. He could move to Mexico, like so many of our manufacturing businesses, where the labour costs are much lower, letting him. not only lessen the initial expense drop substantially but the bonus money would too. Boy, did I miss my calling or what?
@wolfgang59said For the past three years we have given our maid a
Christmas bonus/box/present of NZ$500. Since March
she has been job-sharing with her mum-in-law (15 hrs
a week each).
So I innocently say to my wife;
"We'll be giving P & J $250 each for Christmas."
Well ... it was as if I had suggested a murder!
"We always give "P" $500!" she said.
"$250 will be insulting"
...[text shortened]... " and what should we give "J"?
(I'm inclined to think this will split along male/female lines ..)
Put $500 in an envelope with both their names on it and a nice message inside. That way the amount looks the same but they know it is to be shared.
@wolfgang59said For the past three years we have given our maid a
Christmas bonus/box/present of NZ$500. Since March
she has been job-sharing with her mum-in-law (15 hrs
a week each).
So I innocently say to my wife;
"We'll be giving P & J $250 each for Christmas."
Well ... it was as if I had suggested a murder!
"We always give "P" $500!" she said.
"$250 will be insulting"
...[text shortened]... " and what should we give "J"?
(I'm inclined to think this will split along male/female lines ..)
It's an easy solution.
Ignore the wife and only give half the bonus and then set aside $10,000 for the divorce attorney
There, problem solved. We human beings make life harder than it has to be.