@the-gravedigger said
I would always go to a bar where you can seek refuge in alcohol. In fact that is what I always did on all first dates. Funny but even with the foxy ones it all usually went horribly wrong.
Met a woman on tinder in Thailand a few years back... Her profile was set at 26. When we matched she said was actually 30 something, i was 31/32 at the time so didn't really care.
Looked through her pictures and thought I'll need to shirt up for this meeting. My only sleeveless shirt i travelled with. Was a day date, she picked me up and drove around the island a bit.
The shirt was a good call... She wore a dress with her boobs sticking out, honestly thought they were fake at first. Great body, a bit nuts but nice girl. Completely stunning.
Spent the day together and went back to her hotel for drinks... Now the thought process starts... How can this lead to spending the night together. Talked about massages so asked, do you want a massage?
She said yes and had breakfast together the next day.
I find if you're just confident and act naturally things tend to happen. But looking she was clearly looking for some fun with a foreigner.
That helps. The foreigner card 😂