Reminds me of a funny incident a couple of months ago. I own a track car with 3 pals, nothing fancy, just a Mazda MX5. One afternoon one of my pals brought a friend of his over to drive the car. A young chap, softly spoken. After driving the car he said the engine is not running quite right. 'Oh and just what qualifies you to say that' I said. He replied 'I have a PhD in automotive engineering and design engines for Mclaren.'
@divegeestersaid Are you aware of when you have misstepped and found yourself attributing either a “halo” or “horns” to someone or a group?
With all the resources now available on the net I have more access to ideas and arguments that I might have dismissed or even been contemptuous of in the past [horns] - and therefore I have gained a more nuanced appreciation of them - while also becoming more acutely aware of the flaws in ideas and arguments that I might have given an unthinking or ideological free pass to in the past [halo].
@the-gravediggersaid Reminds me of a funny incident a couple of months ago. I own a track car with 3 pals, nothing fancy, just a Mazda MX5. One afternoon one of my pals brought a friend of his over to drive the car. A young chap, softly spoken. After driving the car he said the engine is not running quite right. 'Oh and just what qualifies you to say that' I said. He replied 'I have a PhD in automotive engineering and design engines for Mclaren.'
@suziannesaid Probably better than from some random walk-up, yeah?
Perhaps your funny quip about "some random walk-up" is funny, or funnier than my quip about redbrick universities, I'll grant you; but I cannot say for sure that it is because I don't know what "some random walk-up" means: is it an American expression?
@divegeestersaid Unconscious bias can impact any of us and in all walks of life.
Relationships; e.g. falling in love at first sight.
Workplace; e.g. hiring the candidate who is the best dressed, spoken or groomed.
Acquaintances; e.g. having a bad experience with one or two people can lead to generalising “people are awful” which could lead to isolation.
Are you aware of wh ...[text shortened]... you have misstepped and found yourself attributing either a “halo” or “horns” to someone or a group?
So you assume that whatever-it-was was a misstep and not absolutely bang-on correct at first blush?
I haven't made a social misstep in years. Every time I meet someone new, I get along with most, but every single time I think to myself, geez, this guy seems like a jerk, he later proves himself to be all that and more.
I never "generalize" with people, just as I don't use stereotypes; everyone is their own person and deserves to be treated that way. "Unconscious bias" is a weakness I do not indulge in.
@fmfsaid Perhaps your funny quip about "some random walk-up" is funny, or funnier than my quip about redbrick universities, I'll grant you; but I cannot say for sure that it is because I don't know what "some random walk-up" means: is it an American expression?
I'll indulge you this time. Plus, you asked nicely (for you, at least).
What does "some random walk-up" mean in the context of what I posted? Someone with a Ph.D.? A university? I concede you may well be saying something funnier than what I posted, but you need to explain. Do you have "random walk-up" Ph.Ds in the U.S.? Do you have "random walk-up" universities? There's no such thing in the U.K.
@suziannesaid I haven't made a social misstep in years. Every time I meet someone new, I get along with most, but every single time I think to myself, geez, this guy seems like a jerk, he later proves himself to be all that and more.
I never "generalize" with people, just as I don't use stereotypes; everyone is their own person and deserves to be treated that way. "Unconscious bias" is a weakness I do not indulge in.
It is interesting that you would think the OP is about you personally.
@suziannesaid I never "generalize" with people, just as I don't use stereotypes; everyone is their own person and deserves to be treated that way. "Unconscious bias" is a weakness I do not indulge in.
This claim about yourself sits very incongruously alongside the rather scathing broad-brush comments you make about people with conservative values with whom you have political disagreements.