19 May 08
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So you're trying to have a friendly conversation with someone. This person ("Adam" ) says "X is true".
You are suspicious. X sounds like a silly rumor, or conspiracy theory, or something equally untrustworthy, but the person insists it's true. They insist and insist, trying to make you admit that it must be true.
Do you honestly admit that you don't think it's true?
Do you pretend you do think it's true?
Do you try to withhold judgement?
I'm usually honest, and that means I have trouble with small talk. An amazing number of people out there are absolutely convinced of the most ridiculous and untrustworthy "facts". But do you insult them by telling them they are wrong?
This is one reason I tend to avoid people.
19 May 08
Originally posted by AThousandYoung"I hadn't heard that before, and it doesn't quite match anything I've heard on the subject. Where did you get your information so I can learn more?"
So you're trying to have a friendly conversation with someone. This person ("Adam" ) says "X is true".
You are suspicious. X sounds like a silly rumor, or conspiracy theory, or something equally untrustworthy, but the person insists it's true. They insist and insist, trying to make you admit that it must be true.
Do you honestly admit that yo ...[text shortened]... t them by telling them they are wrong?
This is one reason I tend to avoid people.
or
"Dang! That really is the stupiedest thing I've heard in a long time! Congratulations!"
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19 May 08
Originally posted by AThousandYoungAbsolutely. If they're a friend, consider it a favor--saving them from looking like an idiot to the rest of the world.
An amazing number of people out there are absolutely convinced of the most ridiculous and untrustworthy "facts". But do you insult them by telling them they are wrong?
I usually tell people they're wrong, even if I have no idea what they're talking about. That's just my nature.
19 May 08
Originally posted by AThousandYoungMy memory is still excellent. With confidence I must tell you this is the second time in
So you're trying to have a friendly conversation with someone. This person ("Adam" ) says "X is true".
You are suspicious. X sounds like a silly rumor, or conspiracy theory, or something equally untrustworthy, but the person insists it's true. They insist and insist, trying to make you admit that it must be true.
Do you honestly admit that yo ...[text shortened]... t them by telling them they are wrong?
This is one reason I tend to avoid people.
five months that I've seen this exact same thread... so something must be true.
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19 May 08
Originally posted by AThousandYounghow do you make it out of the teacher's lounge alive everyday?
So you're trying to have a friendly conversation with someone. This person ("Adam" ) says "X is true".
You are suspicious. X sounds like a silly rumor, or conspiracy theory, or something equally untrustworthy, but the person insists it's true. They insist and insist, trying to make you admit that it must be true.
Do you honestly admit that yo ...[text shortened]... t them by telling them they are wrong?
This is one reason I tend to avoid people.
19 May 08
Originally posted by zeeblebotI don't hang out in the teachers' lounge. I sometimes sit and read or use the computer in there while I finish a Diet Coke or two, but usually I'm on the yard supervising while the others are flirting in there.
how do you make it out of the teacher's lounge alive everyday?
The Principal's been cracking down on that social time from what I can tell.
19 May 08
Originally posted by AThousandYoungIt is very simple, dude.
So you're trying to have a friendly conversation with someone. This person ("Adam" ) says "X is true".
You are suspicious. X sounds like a silly rumor, or conspiracy theory, or something equally untrustworthy, but the person insists it's true. They insist and insist, trying to make you admit that it must be true.
Do you honestly admit that yo ...[text shortened]... t them by telling them they are wrong?
This is one reason I tend to avoid people.
When you encounter a person saying nonsense (in your opinion), ask yourself:
1. Can this person be of any use to me in the future, provided I befriend him/her or at least leave a good image?
2. Will arguing bring me an immediate, direct and monetary gain?
Usually the answers are: (a) yes, it is always good to have lots of friends or at least persons who think you are an "o.k. guy", and (b) no, arguing will bring me nothing.
Therefore, the reaction is to mediate, to stay in a blurry position, and to avoid the headache of arguing.
Only strike when it brings you something tangible and useful
Hey, but I am a lawyer for no coincidence of life! 🙂
19 May 08
Originally posted by AThousandYoungPray of Saint Francis:
So you're trying to have a friendly conversation with someone. This person ("Adam" ) says "X is true".
You are suspicious. X sounds like a silly rumor, or conspiracy theory, or something equally untrustworthy, but the person insists it's true. They insist and insist, trying to make you admit that it must be true.
Do you honestly admit that yo ...[text shortened]... t them by telling them they are wrong?
This is one reason I tend to avoid people.
Lord, make me an instrument of your peace,
Where there is hatred, let me sow love;
where there is injury, pardon;
where there is doubt, faith;
where there is despair, hope;
where there is darkness, light;
where there is sadness, joy;
19 May 08
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Originally posted by AThousandYoungI know what you are talking about. Limited minds do not give up from their predefined dogmas even if that means they will behave absurd and destructive. "X is true" people pretty much destroyed my life in the last two years. The worst thing is when they put their "X is true attitude" in practice so they are making decisions following their little short-mindened axioms. There are mild cases and severe cases. But I know a dozen of severe cases harmful to the enviorement.
So you're trying to have a friendly conversation with someone. This person ("Adam" ) says "X is true".
You are suspicious. X sounds like a silly rumor, or conspiracy theory, or something equally untrustworthy, but the person insists it's true. They insist and insist, trying to make you admit that it must be true.
Do you honestly admit that yo t them by telling them they are wrong?
This is one reason I tend to avoid people.
Simple "IN MY OPINION x is true" and more sense for compromises and respect for other people and their right to think, assume or know would present them as much healthier human beings.
How to deal with it was your question ? Well, somebody tell me that, and rapidly too 😛
19 May 08
Originally posted by AThousandYoungTELL THEM ITS THE BIGGEST LOAD OF CRAP YOU EVER HEARD,QUESTION THEIR SOBRIETY, ASK THEM IF THEYRE ON DRUGS
So you're trying to have a friendly conversation with someone. This person ("Adam" ) says "X is true".
You are suspicious. X sounds like a silly rumor, or conspiracy theory, or something equally untrustworthy, but the person insists it's true. They insist and insist, trying to make you admit that it must be true.
Do you honestly admit that yo ...[text shortened]... t them by telling them they are wrong?
This is one reason I tend to avoid people.