Originally posted by Ashiitaka The debates forum is especially futile. I don't think I've ever seen anyone ever change someone else's mind.
And there's a good chance you never will. But this doesn't mean no one ever plays a part (or is intrumental) in someone changing their mind. By the way, there's a big difference between someone changing their own mind and someone working to change someone else's mind. The second way rarely works because changing one's mind is an act of self will... compliance can be forced, but it's nearly impossible to force a belief.
There are people in my past who were instrumental in me later changing my mind about positions I've held, but I can't think of one who was actually there to see it happen.
Originally posted by lemon lime And there's a good chance you never will. But this doesn't mean no one ever plays a part (or is intrumental) in someone changing their mind. By the way, there's a big difference between someone changing their own mind and someone working to change someone else's mind. The second way rarely works because changing one's mind is an act of self will... compli ...[text shortened]... ind about positions I've held, but I can't think of one who was actually there to see it happen.
Changing another's mind would require providing a sufficiently persuasive argument contrary to the position held by the other. And even if such an argument was made that was sufficiently persuasive enough to change another's mind that's no guarantee the other will change their mind.
I think most people's minds are not their own. A "mindset" is a skillfully crafted perspective held by the individual based on information and perception. The "mind" is too easily deceived by false information which skews perceptions of reality, hence the need for arguments sufficiently persuasive enough to "change a mind".
What makes it even more improbable that anyone here is capable of providing an argument sufficiently persuasive enough to change another's mind is the fact that no one posting in these forums is sufficiently equipped to do so.