Originally posted by EcstremeVenomI agree with you it is dangerous and not of sound mind to become totally dependant on your partner, just as it's not right to hold on to the parental strings after your child has grown. Or to still depend on your parents after you have fled the nest. It's not healthy but it's not love either. It's insecurity, obsession or just wrong as you said but that's not love.
(when w/ your "significant other"😉 is nothing but an obsession. in my opinion, it should be a psychological disorder. it is a very dangerous and harmful thing. it may cause deep depression, and even drive people to commit suicide. it also causes people to become dependent on that one person, some people become addicted to relationships to the point tha ...[text shortened]... y are raised to believe that is right and there is no other way, not because it is logical.
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Stop all the clocks, cut off the telephone,
Prevent the dog from barking with a juicy bone,
Silence the pianos and with muffled drum
Bring out the coffin, let the mourners come.
Let aeroplanes circle moaning overhead
Scribbling on the sky the message He Is Dead,
Put crêpe bows round the white necks of the public
doves,
Let the traffic policemen wear black cotton gloves.
He was my North, my South, my East and West,
My working week and my Sunday rest,
My noon, my midnight, my talk, my song;
I thought that love would last for ever: I was wrong.
The stars are not wanted now: put out every one;
Pack up the moon and dismantle the sun;
Pour away the ocean and sweep up the wood.
For nothing now can ever come to any good.
Funeral Blues by W.H. Auden.
Originally posted by EcstremeVenomSomeday you'll realize just how great it is to have someone watching your back; someone you can really trust.
(when w/ your "significant other"😉 is nothing but an obsession. in my opinion, it should be a psychological disorder. it is a very dangerous and harmful thing. it may cause deep depression, and even drive people to commit suicide. it also causes people to become dependent on that one person, some people become addicted to relationships to the point tha ...[text shortened]... y are raised to believe that is right and there is no other way, not because it is logical.
Not that I've ever felt that way about a woman, but I do feel that way about my family. It would be...amazing...to meet a woman I trusted the way I trust my family.
Originally posted by AThousandYoungThey say love is what you find when you're not looking for it, so perhaps now that you know what it is you'll find it. I htink trust is something given when it is recived.
Someday you'll realize just how great it is to have someone watching your back; someone you can really trust.
Not that I've ever felt that way about a woman, but I do feel that way about my family. It would be...amazing...to meet a woman I trusted the way I trust my family.
Originally posted by EcstremeVenomI always think that love is madness.
(when w/ your "significant other"😉 is nothing but an obsession. in my opinion, it should be a psychological disorder. it is a very dangerous and harmful thing. it may cause deep depression, and even drive people to commit suicide. it also causes people to become dependent on that one person, some people become addicted to relationships to the point tha ...[text shortened]... y are raised to believe that is right and there is no other way, not because it is logical.