Loyalty testing

Interesting thread. How sad that some people will invest trust in such an internet service instead of trusting their own human instincts upon whether they can trust a partner.

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@mchill said
Not a new idea but it’s now hitting the mainstream using social media real long and baiting


I'm sure this is true, but there is a nice solution:

Close down your social media account(s) and stay off of it! We have snail mail, email, telephone, text, fax, personal messaging, instant messaging, skype, and zoom to stay connected to friends and work. Do we really need social media on top of all this? I think not.

@Great-Big-Stees said
What about just not doing something untoward?🤔😲👍

@mchill said
That's fine with me, but I preferred to unplug from the social media scene and simplify my life.

@Torunn said
I have been wondering how life would be without the social media - would I be able to stay in touch with friends and would I be happier not knowing all that is going on around us? All I want is peace of mind.

@mchill

Quit preaching boomer.

If anyone thought it was better before phones and computers they wouldn't have phones and computers.

Nobody posting actually believes it was better back then or we wouldn't be seeing them post.

@thedogandthecello
You are probably right but over the last few years I have ditched Facebook,X and have bought an old Nokia ,(just text and phone)lot cheaper than the £40 I was spending on a smart phone.

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@thedogandthecello said
For an even bigger fee they won't tell your partner 😄

If you doubt, that your spouse is loyal go to marriage counsseling.

Maybe your basic value "security" stands in question, maybe their value "freedom" is lived in a way you don't see as proper.

Maybe you are right and maybe you are just led by fear. It can be brought to light and your relationsship can bloom.

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