My idea of the perfect date may be a bit corny but it speaks about my very personality. This would obviously not be a first or even a second date but would be with someone I was totally in love with. I have obviously put some thought into this, so tell me what you guys think, Also your homework assignment is to tell me about your idea of the perfect date. Please be detailed but keep it clean...enjoy
As with everything, perfection takes some planning. First of all I absolutely love sophistication and elegance, keeping that in mind, The date would start three weeks prior to when we actually plan to go out. It would start by me picking out the most elegant dress for her as a surprise and giving it to her as a present with instructions in the card to be ready by a certain time and certain date and thats all it would say. About 3 weeks later I would pull up to pick her up at the designated area in a rented limo or town car, I would be dressed in a tux ( I shine up like a button by the way) and she would be the most beautiful women in the world in the dress I picked out for her. With her hair done and everything else that girls do. I would greet her with a gentle kiss on the cheak and then I would drag my fingers over her face which is my sign of ultimate affection. I would open up her door and she would get into the car and I would follow. The driver would then take us to Atlanta where we would go to an evening showing of a play or musical at the foxx theater. We would probably hold hands all throughtout the play, if she were cold I would offer her my coat to keep her warm. As I stated I adore theater which is obviously the reason for this. The biggest turn on is the ability to hold an intelligent conversation, nothing can be more sexy to me. The night would be filled with all sorts of conversations, one would probably be about the play. And always I would be looking directly into her eyes. Not only to say that she is the only one for me but also to make her feel as though she is the most important person in the entire world to me.
I love sophistication so after the play ends we would be driven to the finest five star restaurant in Atlanta where we would have a late supper again with complimentry conversation and plenty of eye contact. After dinner we would walk along the river holding hands where we would come across a blanket with candles and music playing. (Obviously all set up prior) We would lay down on the blanket and count as many stars as we possibly could to see who could count the most, then I would say something corny like she missed two and say the stars in her eyes only it would be very sincere and also give me an excuse to look into her eyes. Our eyes would meet and our noses would touch and our eyelashes would be having butterfly kisses, and finally our lips would meet and I would whisper in her ear that I love her and she would know that I meant it. And I would take her in my grasps and we would fall asleep underneath the stars in each others arms.
Not to bad I hope. I hope you guys enjoyed it. Like I have stated many times I am a hopeless romantic. This date has not happened quite yet but as you all know i am looking for someone to hopefully share it with...please be honest in telling me what you think.
Originally posted by deathbypawnWell, that was certainly a wonderful fantasy. Listen, maybe I'm at the other end of the spectrum than you , but most of the sane women I know, upon hearing that , would add another deadbolt to their door and get an unlisted phone number. Here's the problem. How the hell do you follow that up? Look, here's a deep truth I'm gonna lay down fo ya. Today women are a mess. Men are a mess too. The mere possibility that anything would work out is nothing short of a miracle. If you come across this woman your looking for, God bless you and have a nice life.
My idea of the perfect date may be a bit corny but it speaks about my very personality. This would obviously not be a first or even a second date but would be with someone I was totally in love with. I have obviously put some thought into this, so tell me what you guys think, Also your homework assignment is to tell me about your idea of the perfect date ...[text shortened]... looking for someone to hopefully share it with...please be honest in telling me what you think.
Whats the one thing everyones after and can never seem to get their hands on anymore? Love. The most common mistake people make is they feel like theres something missing in their life and they think that another human being can fill that spot. People wind up in false relationships when they're lonley.
And this is after how many weeks of dating that you want this to happen? 3? Whats the hurry? If you really love this woman you can be patient for a year or maybe more. Like dad said, what comes after that? Just wait a while and throw the ring somewhere in there. Problem is, if you ask the question to early, she's gonna feel like you're forcing the relationship on her, and leave. So cool it. No rush. You can spend you're whole life with the girl; 6 months isn't going to hurt you.
Originally posted by deathbypawnOkay, I have a bunch of questions. If this ever really does happen, you might run into these problems.
My idea of the perfect date may be a bit corny but it speaks about my very personality. This would obviously not be a first or even a second date but would be with someone I was totally in love with. I have obviously put some thought in ...[text shortened]... lly share it with...please be honest in telling me what you think.
How would you know her dress size?
What if she doesn't like to wear dresses?
What if she prefers a casual date over something fancy?
And how do you know everything is going to go planned? It could rain. She could get sick. A lot can happen in 3 weeks.
If she doesn't like plays thats another obstacle.
If you've planned every detail out on the date it doesn't make you look too good. You assume she'd want to snuggle, kiss, ect. But if she doesn't want to you're going to come across as a total control freak. I mean, you've fitted everything out to the thing she's wearing and the actions she's doing. Just try to give more leeway to what she does, wears, says, ect.
Originally posted by moredhelYou fell at the first hurdle. Choosing her dress is a definite no, no. Your date seems to be all about what you want. Find out where she would like to go and what she would like to do. Oh, and by the way, you forgot the flowers.
Is that what im doing wrong; im trying to stick to the plan?!!!!😲
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Originally posted by NyxieMay 18, for much the same reasons, plus it happens to be my birthday. on the other hand, nights are better in all cases, and july has the best nights
This is a tough one. I would have to say April 25th. Because it's not too hot, not too cold, all you need is a light jacket.
Originally posted by fearlessleaderWeirdly May 18th is also my birthday. What are the odds. (Ok so 1/365).
May 18, for much the same reasons, plus it happens to be my birthday. on the other hand, nights are better in all cases, and july has the best nights
But I guess my answer would be something informal and spontaneous... However these are hard to arrange and/or find.
Originally posted by Varg....and then creeping out of bed, trying to find your clothes and running across campus at six in the morning in your underpants hoping you didn't reveal your name/number....
What is a date?
Is it meeting some lass in a drunken haze in a pub/nightclub, then waking up in strange surroundings with memory loss and no idea what's lying next to you?
Originally posted by richispsychoActually, disagree with the odds. Depends how many people saw that date on this thread and the probability of it being their birthday and posting.
Weirdly May 18th is also my birthday. What are the odds. (Ok so 1/365).
I would say 10/365. 😀
Opps, think I am diverting from the point of the thread here.
Originally posted by collemanHow about he gives her his credit card and she can go buy whatever she wants? 😀
You fell at the first hurdle. Choosing her dress is a definite no, no. Your date seems to be all about what you want. Find out where she would like to go and what she would like to do. Oh, and by the way, you forgot the flowers.
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