Originally posted by CoconutI am sorry about what has happened between you and your ex-girlfriend. But thank God its over for you and you can start all over. the other guy should watch out though. cause what she did to you can also happen to the guy.
I guess we're broken up. She's been with another guy this summer...
It hurts so bad.
Take care,
Regards,
Eric🙂
Originally posted by CoconutYou wouldn't take her back if you were smart.
You guys should know, that I'm pretty sure she'll want me back. I feel good now about everything. I feel comfortable saying no to this.
Cheat on me once. Shame on you.
Cheat on me twice. still shame on you but....
Originally posted by CoconutCut her off , dude . Don't talk to her . Don't take her phone calls . Return all mail unopened . If she comes to your door , tell her you don't want to see her and she needs to go now , and cannot come in . Take any of her stuff that's sentimental and put it in a box , and have a friend store it . Tell him not to give it back to you for a whole year . Anything she does as far as trying to cozy up to you is abuse on her part at this point . She might not even know she's doing it , but you fill some sick need in her to have you there for security because she knows she's Fec'ed up ; but at the same time wants to be able to wallow in her sickness any time she wants to and have you there to make her feel better for being twisted . And she might use the "well can't we just be friends, you're sooo important to me!" line . THIS IS CRAP TOO . No , you can't be friends . If your best friend F'ed you over and abused your trust , no way would you be able to be friends with him , so you can't with her either . This chic has got her lid cross-threaded , man !
You guys should know, that I'm pretty sure she'll want me back. I feel good now about everything. I feel comfortable saying no to this.
Cheat on me once. Shame on you.
Cheat on me twice. still shame on you but....
Now for you : Realize there is nothing wrong with you . You acted honorably , and got hurt . Doesn't mean you're fec'ed in the head too(unless you take her back) . You gave someone the benefit of the doubt , and they broke your trust . YOU'RE not the problem here . Get active so you don't sit around crying in your beer . Take up a hobby you've been thinking about for a while . Join a gym . Buy a bike and ride your ass off . Something constructive and different . Think of this relationship not as a waste of time , but an investment . You now have learned valuable lessons on how you want to be treated as a man , and what you'll accept and not accept . You'll be better prepared now when a real good woman comes along . If it wasn't for all of my bad relationships , I wouldn't have as strong a relationship as I have now (going on a year and a half) .
And never give up hope . There's someone for everyone .
Originally posted by Moldy CrowI love you.
Cut her off , dude . Don't talk to her . Don't take her phone calls . Return all mail unopened . If she comes to your door , tell her you don't want to see her and she needs to go now , and cannot come in . Take any of her stuff that's sentimental and put it in a box , and have a friend store it . Tell him not to give it back to you for a whole year . ...[text shortened]... now (going on a year and a half) .
And never give up hope . There's someone for everyone .
Anyway, I don't drink, as I'm only 18 and never been into the illegal such and such.
Thanks again guys. It still hurts a freaking lot. That I gave all my love and to have it dishonored in the worst way possible.
Originally posted by CoconutIt's going to happen . Love means risk . Get strong , learn , when you're better you'll love again , and it will be better than this crap .
I love you.
Anyway, I don't drink, as I'm only 18 and never been into the illegal such and such.
Thanks again guys. It still hurts a freaking lot. That I gave all my love and to have it dishonored in the worst way possible.
I think with all your support you deserve an update, for anyone who bothers to look.
I really love this girl, and call me idiot, but I tried to make an agreement with her that we'd wait out her year at college, stay in e-contact, and see how we are next summer. She seemed to like it, but still wants to sleep with this guy, and it just still hurts me.
It all came out two days ago that she left me because I'm not hot enough, and don't perform the Humpty Dance (as someone here once put it) the way she wants. I gave her all the love, but couldn't give the physical gratification to make her happy. It does pain me, and I'm just about ready to call it off and let her regret her shallowness.
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Originally posted by CoconutYeesh, at least she was honest. 😕
I think with all your support you deserve an update, for anyone who bothers to look.
I really love this girl, and call me idiot, but I tried to make an agreement with her that we'd wait out her year at college, stay in e-contact, and se ...[text shortened]... ust about ready to call it off and let her regret her shallowness.
EDIT - Have you tried toys?