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Blackpoolmad

Blackpool

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I always start a game with something like "Greetings from Blackpool" and ex[ect a reply with hello from where ever.

Then play the game, but sometimes people can't be arsed to just acknowledge.

Rude, or what?

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YNWA

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I don't think I'd bother replying 😉

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THORNINYOURSIDE

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Originally posted by Blackpoolmad
I always start a game with something like "Greetings from Blackpool" and ex[ect a reply with hello from where ever.

Then play the game, but sometimes people can't be arsed to just acknowledge.

Rude, or what?
The person could be deaf and never heard what you said.

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lazy boy derivative

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More often than not I don't offer a first greeting. But I'll certainly reply to one.

divegeester
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Originally posted by Blackpoolmad
I always start a game with something like "Greetings from Blackpool" and ex[ect a reply with hello from where ever.

Then play the game, but sometimes people can't be arsed to just acknowledge.

Rude, or what?
Unless you were pretending to be a hot-babe by having a profile pic like king creole and sent me in-game sex chat, I would ignore your boring ass too.

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Originally posted by Blackpoolmad
I always start a game with something like "Greetings from Blackpool" and ex[ect a reply with hello from where ever.
Blackpool? Is it any wonder?

YEAH BOY

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What a beat down! Atta way.

divegeester
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STARMERGEDDON

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Originally posted by YEAH BOY
What a beat down! Atta way.
Come on, it's straight out of the same book as

..."why does my opponent take so long to move when I've finished my dinner and bedtime is looming?"

and

..."why has my opponent gone of holiday when I was just about to win (and what's so special about holidays anyway)?"

rc

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Originally posted by Blackpoolmad
I always start a game with something like "Greetings from Blackpool" and ex[ect a reply with hello from where ever.

Then play the game, but sometimes people can't be arsed to just acknowledge.

Rude, or what?
yes, but then you must take great pleasure in whupping them at chess for their lack of courtesy and good manners.

YEAH BOY

Madison Square Garde

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Originally posted by divegeester
Come on, it's straight out of the same book as

..."why does my opponent take so long to move when I've finished my dinner and bedtime is looming?"

and

..."why has my opponent gone of holiday when I was just about to win (and what's so special about holidays anyway)?"
That's why I bought the sub! It's simple.

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Cowboy From Hell

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Originally posted by Blackpoolmad
I always start a game with something like "Greetings from Blackpool" and ex[ect a reply with hello from where ever.

Then play the game, but sometimes people can't be arsed to just acknowledge.

Rude, or what?

D

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Equally possible is that they just move automatically without noticing the message written above the board. Once they've made a move, your friendly greeting is hidden from view until they accidentally click the message log.

Equally possible is that they saw the message, intended to reply but moved first and then... oh, i can't send a message now, it's not my turn.... By the time the game comes around again they've forgotten.

Unlucky!

ps. This is my only gripe with the RHP interface, in game messages. You can only message someone before you move and you can't (without remembering to click on something) see what they wrote after you moved.

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Milton Keynes, UK

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Originally posted by Deau
Equally possible is that they just move automatically without noticing the message written above the board. Once they've made a move, your friendly greeting is hidden from view until they accidentally click the message log.

Equally possible is that they saw the message, intended to reply but moved first and then... oh, i can't send a message now, it's not my ...[text shortened]... you can't (without remembering to click on something) see what they wrote after you moved.
It has happened to me before where I have read the message with the intent to reply later (I might even delay making my move to do so depending on the message and how much thought the reply requires). When I come back I make the move without replying.....doh!

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Ajarn

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Originally posted by lausey
It has happened to me before where I have read the message with the intent to reply later (I might even delay making my move to do so depending on the message and how much thought the reply requires). When I come back I make the move without replying.....doh!
Or you make a stupid move, in writing in response. 😉

I always open my games with "Best to us both", as all players who have played me know. It doesn't come more fair, or introductory, than that. 🙂

Homer1Simpson
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I agree I think it is rude for people not to reply. But then again I always look to see where the person is from via their flag, as they may not be able to read/write English!

Often I get a greetings message from some far off place but I always reply. At least I hope they are greetings messages!! ;-)

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