@moonbus saidI have known very few men to be that accomodating. Most insist on being themselves and then develop a bad attitude about women who reject what they are. Some are perfectly acceptable human beings, thankfully.
Men are incredibly simple-minded. Natural selection is driven by women, because they have what men will do anything to get. If women want men to be like Labrador retrievers, all touchy-feely, roll over on their backs while women rub their bellies, then men will act like Labrador retrievers. If women want men to be macho Telly Savalas dudes, then men will be macho Telly Savalas dudes. If women want stupid men, then men will be stupid. It's really that simple.