Originally posted by Hand of Hecate
I feel for you Krazy. You're too old and too set in your ways to give any real advice to. You simply won't take it. However, many of your issues with women stem from an inherent low self worth. You simply take way too much crap. This is unfortunate as you're basically a bright and creative guy.
One word of wisdom, given that you have no histo ...[text shortened]... e from here on out. Make a vow, a blood oath, whatever, but stop being such a pussy.
Thank you. I agree somewhat.
I am sick of being the nice guy that gets trampled on.
I am not set in my ways. I'm 38.
I really can't see myself having another girlfriend, ever.
After all, why would I need one?
And this is the point I reached about a week ago, when things were running smoothly with no.3 , ie. that I don'[t really want a girlfriend. As simple as that.
I do have some inner conflict about this, as I believe that it does take 2 to have a child, so basically 2 people should be able to enrich each others lives and have a happy family for their kids sake if nothing else. But then again, I am so happy by myself. Sex is not a problem. About the only thing I can think of is the "womans touch" around my home that I would appreciate. But all in all, I think I am going with my gut on this.
BTW people, obviously I have pointed out all the negative things I have put up with fro these women. We also had great times. Great sex. Happy family days, and some inner /spiritual growth - as all my relationships, since the commencement of no.1 , I have been totally truthful , not trying to paint a false picture of myself.
I figure if I tell them the truth and they still love me then it can really go some where.