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Originally posted by Booyah333Ah yes...one of the more interesting questions to pass by in recent months...
Well, when you figure it out, let me know.
Why do women, when in an abusive or uncaring relationship (usually with a 'bad boy'😉, always say they would just like to find a nice, stable guy.
But if they are seeing a nice, stable guy, they cheat on him with a bad boy.
Women... you are evil, schizophrenic trolls who can't see past your own noses.
This is going to sound absolutely horrible, but it's the truth. Sit ye doon, crack open a can of beer and learn to let go:
Truth nr. 1: You are a mirror image of your environment.
This basically means that if you were reared stable, you will be stable. If you were mistreated as a child, you will probably mistreat your own children.
Most behavioural patterns are not inherent, they are taught. Generally at a young age. If a woman has had a dominant father, then the chances are high that she will look for a dominant partner.
Fact Most women who are smacked by their partner, where physically abused as a child[/i]
Nobody admits it though, because that would mean forcing one's self to change.
Poverty and the stress of poverty and a family, generally led men in generations past to near despair. That's not a healthy scenario. We're still plucking the fruits today...if you will...
Truth nr. 2: Attention is a balancing act
Nobody wants to be ignored. Nobody wants to be stalked.
That's basically the problem.
You might like me to PM you. But should I PM you 10x a day, you'll go off your rocker.
So, it's a fine balancing act. It's one of the most difficult acts to master in a relationship (believe me, I should know...I'm way too intense for mere mortals).
If you ignore someone too much, they'll be hurt and will start building up a protective wall against you. If you give someone too much attention, they'll think you're clinging and will try to avoid you.
What you need is to give them enough attention that they seek equal amounts of attention by you. And vice-versa.
It's not static though!
Friends, for instance, will have a less frequent pattern than people who are just in love.
Tip: when in love remember "less is better".
If you call a girl three times and she doesn't call you once...you're giving her too much attention. If a girl calls you three times and you don't call her once....then you're ignoring her too much.
Try to keep it balanced and you'll be roughly on the right track.
Truth nr. 3: We are only animals
This means that men just want to spread their DNA as much as possible and women want the best DNA possible. To try to increase the chances of healthy off-spring (better DNA transporters).
Fact: Women cheat most often wilst ovulating and will generally cheat on someone "rougher" or "more powerful" than their partner
From this one can conclude that to a woman's genetic make-up, the person best suited for raising the children isn't always the same person who's best for creating the children.
You can pay by visa or mastercard. I'll be PMing you with the details.
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Originally posted by invigorateThank you for understanding the simplicity of women and the role of men.
Different women want different things: Some want money, some want babies, some chocolate, some want mind blowing sex whilst others will settle for the remote control.
The secret of life is to enjoy giving them these things.
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I just wrote a real long and and incitefull post saying alot of possibly hurtfull truths but then while messing around with msn I somehow x'd out the wrong window. *sigh* I'm sure it was for the best. I blame Joanne. (sorry Wucky...a different Jo)
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Originally posted by Booyah333Some men are mistaken in thinking that the biggest mystery to life are women. It's no mystery at all. First of all, start thinking: woman instead of women, and your half way there.
Well, when you figure it out, let me know.
Why do women, when in an abusive or uncaring relationship (usually with a 'bad boy'😉, always say they would just like to find a nice, stable guy.
But if they are seeing a nice, stable guy, they cheat on him with a bad boy.
Women... you are evil, schizophrenic trolls who can't see past your own noses.
Men and women are all individuals. Most individuals want most things in life. It's not what they want. It's when they want it. The only way to make a woman happy and true to you (if that's the path you'd like to pursuit) is to get to know her signals. Now, I'm not talking about those "when she says this, she means that"-kind of signals. I mean the signals that she isn't even aware of herself. Notice how, when she behaves in a certain way, it's always connected to something else. Find some way of giving her that something else before she even conciously realizes it herself.
Now, me personally, I don't waste much time on a woman who isn't willing to do the same for me. (Which is probably why I'm single, once again.)
This is one generalization I'm willing to make. All women seem to be of the opinion that they are the focus point of a relationship. That the man has to work really hard to satisfy their needs, and in return he gets to do the bed-dance. Well, to most men that may be enough, but I for one would appreciate something a little more lasting (...and, of course, the humping).
Give and take. Give and take. It's an old and worn-down phrase, but it's true. You will find the woman of your interest intimate with another man if you completely fail to notice her. To notice is to get to know her intimately, and responding to her needs. Those needs may be to get away from you at times, or to cuttle up in the sofa with you watching a good movie (the closeness of it all).
If she'll do the same for you, your relationship may just work. Forget that good guy/bad guy thing. Sometimes we want naughty, sometimes understanding and sometimes closeness. The same is true for women.
[Edit: Of course, I should add, that most of the time your woman of interest and you won't want the same thing. Compromize, I'm sure you know, is the key to any successfull relationship. And it only works two ways.]
Originally posted by Loose ScrewThen please understand the majority of men who have money are jerks.
Then please accept, that not every man has the money to buy you girls everything you want.🙁
The most generous men I have known haven't had much money at all but are much more willing to spend it on a dozen roses than some wad making way too much doing way too little who has to hoard and pinch every penny in order to feel powerfull and important. Thank you.
Originally posted by mokkoThat's true. Poor people are so good at breeding.
Then please understand the majority of men who have money are jerks.
The most generous men I have known haven't had much money at all but are much more willing to spend it on a dozen roses than some wad making way too much doing way too little who has to hoard and pinch every penny in order to feel powerfull and important. Thank you.
Originally posted by stockenWhat the hell are you babbling on about boy?
Now, I'm not talking about those "when she says this, she means that"-kind of signals. I mean the signals that she isn't even aware of herself. Notice how, when she behaves in a certain way, it's always connected to something else. Find some way of giving her that something else before she even conciously realizes it herself.
That makes about as much sense to me as a sack full of silly arseholes.
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Originally posted by shavixmirlol 😵
What the hell are you babbling on about boy?
That makes about as much sense to me as a sack full of silly arseholes.
From this one can conclude that to a woman's genetic make-up, the person best suited for raising the children isn't always the same person who's best for creating the children.
Now, that's beyond me!
[Edit: Whooops! Replied to the wrong post... 😳 Fixed now...]