Don't stress too much mate ... Nothing but a pleasurable fulfilment.
We are of course just "humanimals". When you think about it, humans are the only "animal" that rest sexually exclusive with the same person. Now is that normal???
But of course, you love your current girlfriend ... So we could debate about fidelity until the "cows come home".
I, on the other hand, haven't ever "cheated" on any of my lovers ... I choose to be honest about myself; like that I sleep better at night.
And lastly, I hope to not offend anybody with this so-called "forward-thinking".
🙂
Originally posted by angie88did you say.... Condem?
Tsk tsk tsk.... I really do feel sorry for you now (the honest way, not sarcastic). You're in a lose-lose situation.... if you tell your gf, she'll probably leave you (depending on the kind of person she is) and if you don't you'll have your concience to deal with...
The problem is, I can understand you now when I read your post and I don't condemn you ...[text shortened]... were my bf I'd definately react differently, so...
*hugs Starrman*
shit happens
Angie😕
Originally posted by angie88Do you fancy going for "a drink" with Starrman too?
yeah, Starrman, take a vacation to clear your head... you're officially invited to come to Heidelberg 😀
Btw: Starrman, I'm afraid to say it, but you're toast. Why is your ex your ex is the question u should be asking yourself, or more correctly, you should have been asking yourself last night before the toilet shenanigans.
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Originally posted by angie88Tact is for mugs. 😉
it would be very tactless of me to answer that question 😛
Starrman, as I said in my last post you need to be thinking why your ex is your ex, etc.
Or, in the immortal words of the late, great Michael Jackson...
You ever want something
That you know you shouldn’t have
The more you know you shouldn’t have it,
The more you want it
And then one day you get it,
It’s so good too
But it’s just like my girl
When she’s around me
I just feel so good, so good
But right now I just feel cold, so cold
Right down to my bones
’cause ooh...
Ain’t no sunshine when she’s gone
It’s not warm when she’s away
Ain’t no sunshine when she’s gone
And she’s always gone too long
Anytime she goes away
Wonder this time where she’s gone
Wonder if she’s gone to stay
Ain’t no sunshine when she’s gone
And this house just ain’t no home
Anytime she goes away
I know, I know, I know, I know,
I know, know, know, know, know,
I know, I know,
Hey I ought to leave
I ought to leave her alone
Ain’t no sunshine when she’s gone
Ain’t no sunshine when she’s gone
Only darkness every day
Ain’t no sunshine when she’s gone
And this house just ain’t no home
Anytime she goes away
Now, the question is, which one does this apply to?
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Starrman,
I like that you really express and open yourself to criticism / advice; nice quality you have. I think that you may have subconcsiously known that you would be drawn back into relations with your ex-gf. The mind works in ways we don't always understand. The fact that you didn't stop her at "Im still in love with you" ...... well all i can thinkof is, sometimes NOT making a decision IS making a decision. Flipping between gfs is not a good idea, and will cause you terrible grief, so STOP it now.
You NEED to make a decision, so search yourself, be honest and move forward knowing that whatever you decide is YOUR decision, not a reaction, not a situation you fell into. You must take responsibility for your own actions, otherwise you render yourself a puppet to another person, and no woman truly likes a man that is not confident and responsible.
Take some time and think it over, and be sure to tell all of us what happened. We like to read about trouble in the lives of others.
Thankyou to everyone who has posted here, but I have to come clean. I made the story up and I shall explain why.
A friend of mine was in a similar situation and we were discussing it the other night, it arose that everyone he had asked in the past about such a scenario on a theoretical basis, had professed their abhoration of such behaviour. However, in reality, when he really was in such a situation himself, he had found support and forgiveness and we wondered whether this was truly a trend, whether people said one thing in theory, but when presented with the situation for real, they would be less inclined to be conservative about it.
My intention was not to mislead anyone and my sincerest apologies if anyone is offended by this, I hope you will take it in good stead. My plan is to raise this issue in the debating forum, using this thread as evidence.
Personally, I was surprised at the attitudes of people towards my supposed infidelity, only a small few suggested that I was actually to be reprimanded and I am happy to say that some of you gave good advice and the majority of you showed sympathy and forgiveness, my thanks.
Originally posted by StarrmanRATBASTARD !
Thankyou to everyone who has posted here, but I have to come clean. I made the story up and I shall explain why.
A friend of mine was in a similar situation and we were discussing it the other night, it arose that everyone he had asked in the past about such a scenario on a theoretical basis, had professed their abhoration of such behaviour. However, in ...[text shortened]... some of you gave good advice and the majority of you showed sympathy and forgiveness, my thanks.
(No , really , it's all good dude .)
Originally posted by StarrmanCouldn't wait for round 3, eh? 😉
Thankyou to everyone who has posted here, but I have to come clean. I made the story up and I shall explain why.
A friend of mine was in a similar situation and we were discussing it the other night, it arose that everyone he had asked in the past about such a scenario on a theoretical basis, had professed their abhoration of such behaviour. However, in ...[text shortened]... some of you gave good advice and the majority of you showed sympathy and forgiveness, my thanks.
For some reason, I thought it was a hoax from the start, partly I suppose because you initially posted it on a public forum.
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