What's to like about retirement

@diver said
How did Paul Martin get your personal details?

Why don't you ask Paul Martin himself?

@Drewnogal said
A serious question here Arkturos, do you ever think you should take a break from the forums?

Yes. Every other day. Thank you for asking.

@arkturos removed their quoted post

Because your post was directed at me specifically.

Again, the idea that he knows the names of your neighbours, including one that moved out 10 years ago is ridiculous in the extreme.

Take a break.

@Ghost-of-a-Duke said
Because your post was directed at me specifically.

Again, the idea that he knows the names of your neighbours, including one that moved out 10 years ago is ridiculous in the extreme.

Take a break.

If we don't want anybody to know anything about us, we should just keep it to ourselves. What we let others know is usually trivia or general things, not top secrets.

@Torunn said
If we don't want anybody to know anything about us, we should just keep it to ourselves. What we let others know is usually trivia or general things, not top secrets.

Exactly.

@Torunn said
If we don't want anybody to know anything about us, we should just keep it to ourselves. What we let others know is usually trivia or general things, not top secrets.

If you’re “comfortable” with someone then some top secrets can be given.

@moonbus said
Scorpios are misunderstood eagles.

Nothing wrong with Scorpions, we are good People!!!

A Scorpio man is known for being intense, passionate, mysterious, and deeply emotional, often appearing confident and magnetic while being fiercely loyal and protective to those he loves, yet potentially jealous, obsessive, and controlling, with a powerful drive for ambition, loyalty, and deep connection. He is a man of extremes, valuing trust, honesty, and depth, and possesses strong intuition, determination, and a transformative, powerful nature, making him both alluring and challenging.

Key Traits of a Scorpio Man
Positive Traits:

Intense & Passionate: Feels everything deeply and commits fully to passions, goals, and relationships.

Loyal & Devoted: Fiercely loyal and protective of loved ones, offering deep, all-giving love once trust is established.

Magnetic & Mysterious: Possesses an alluring, enigmatic aura and a piercing gaze that draws others in.

Intuitive & Insightful: Excellent at reading people, picking up on details, and understanding hidden motives.

Ambitious & Determined: Goal-oriented and focused, with a strong drive to achieve what he sets his mind to.

Confident & Brave: Independent, strong-willed, and doesn't shy away from challenges.

Challenging Traits:

Jealous & Possessive: Can struggle with trust, leading to territorial and controlling behavior.

Secretive & Guarded: Deeply private and can be hard to fully know, often hiding vulnerability.

Obsessive & Controlling: His intensity can manifest as fixation or a "win at any cost" attitude.

Resentful & Unforgiving: Holds grudges and can be bitter or vengeful if deeply wronged.

In Relationships:
Seeks Depth: Craves profound emotional bonds, honesty, and transformative experiences, not just physical attraction.

A Man of Extremes: Loves and hates hard; he's either all in or not interested at all.
Tests Boundaries: May flirt or challenge partners to keep things interesting and gauge their depth.

In Summary: A Scorpio man is a complex figure—deeply emotional, incredibly loyal, and fiercely powerful, but with a guarded exterior that makes him both captivating and demanding in relationships, always seeking profound connection and truth.
Scorpio Man: The Ultimate Guide To Love, Traits & More - Zodiac Signs
He is deep, emotional, loyal and giving, right to the point when he gets hurt by the smallest thing. He can be painfully honest.


Scorpio Male Traits: The Zodiac's Most Magnetic & Intense Men
Passionate, confident, and mysterious, a male Scorpio is one smooth guy. He's a man of extremes who loves and hates hard.



-VR

@Great-Big-Stees said
If you’re “comfortable” with someone then some top secrets can be given.

Absolutely. The thing with internet is, unless we have met a person face-to-face, that we can't be sure that a contact is authentic. You and I are both optimists and rather see the good in people than the bad. But having only the facts that are presented on the internet we can't be sure. Do you agree?

@Torunn said
Absolutely. The thing with internet is, unless we have met a person face-to-face, that we can't be sure that a contact is authentic. You and I are both optimists and rather see the good in people than the bad. But having only the facts that are presented on the internet we can't be sure. Do you agree?

Yes. After a period of time (an individual's choice) of interacting with people one gets a feeling that it's OK to "open up"...a bit with personal info and as that trust increases more info.

@Great-Big-Stees said
Yes. After a period of time (an individual's choice) of interacting with people one gets a feeling that it's OK to "open up"...a bit with personal info and as that trust increases more info.

For example, I know your golf handicap is 312.

@Great-Big-Stees said
Yes. After a period of time (an individual's choice) of interacting with people one gets a feeling that it's OK to "open up"...a bit with personal info and as that trust increases more info.

We open up about things that we are not afraid having regrets about later. I have no such regrets.

@Arkturos said
Why don't you ask Paul Martin himself?

I’ve not been following that closely but I have seen comments from each of you indicating that you gave the information freely, which seems a little odd; so I’m just wondering if that’s what happened.

Anyway, I don’t want to get dragged into it, sorry for asking.

@Ghost-of-a-Duke said
For example, I know your golf handicap is 312.

Actually, at the moment it’s 10.🏌️‍♂️

@Great-Big-Stees said
Actually, at the moment it’s 10.🏌️‍♂️

Nice. 🙂

@Ghost-of-a-Duke said
Nice. 🙂

I’ve played for about 75 years. Great sport, one that you can play for a lifetime. My dad played until he was into his late 90s.