Originally posted by BusygirlChoose your time and place well, is my only advice.
Of course actually giving into this temptation would show me to be a vengeful, hateful bitch, and although there is that side of my personality, I would rather not show it off and ruin my own sweet, caring, kind reputation.
So do I give into temptation and expose the truth about someone else (and myself at the same time), or shut the hell up and continue to grit my teeth every time I see them?
Be sure there are plenty of people around who are aware of your sweet, caring, kind reputation. They may be shocked by your outburst and attribute it to the severity of your accusations rather than assuming the person they know as sweet, caring and kind is really a vengeful, hateful bitch.
Keep to the facts, do not opine or seem to draw conclusions from the facts, leave that to the people witnessing the outburst. Do make it clear through your facial and body language what you think of their actions you are calling out. With enough people in the room who have a positive view of you, their focus should remain where you want it, on the person and not on you.
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Originally posted by SuzianneA rarity, but I have to disagree with you.
Choose your time and place well, is my only advice.
Be sure there are plenty of people around who are aware of your sweet, caring, kind reputation. They may be shocked by your outburst and attribute it to the severity of your accusations rather than assuming the person they know as sweet, caring and kind is really a vengeful, hateful bitch.
Keep to t ...[text shortened]... positive view of you, their focus should remain where you want it, on the person and not on you.
Sounds like drama mongering to me, all of it. I'd advise to simply find satisfaction in knowing the truth, and get over it. Why waste time correcting people on the reputation of another? It will ultimately make her look like the vengeful, hateful bitch she doesn't want to appear to be.
These advice seeking, without full detail, threads bother me. Give the whole picture if you want advice, you know?